I’ll try and keep this short any advice is appreciated.

Got super drunk with my best friend as I’m leaving the state in a week and we were having one last big night together I was mixing my drinks with pain meds and was also smoking weed.

We’re both drunk (me worse than him) and he starts messaging this girl I’ve formerly plated and asks her over for a 3some she says no to that but continues messaging him (sends me a text asking if I want her over - we talk till she gets to mine as well) .She arrives and she’s also drunk. She’s under the impression I’ll be fucking her not my friend (so she says)

Preface by saying I don’t remember any of this I was blacked out for majority of the night-

We go to my room my friend apparently followed. He making out with the plate and trying to set a 3some up which I’m not against I’m letting them do there thing.

The plate after a while starts to not want it and tells him to stop and no several times. Apparently I then told him to leave the room to his protests, he ended up leaving in which I started up with the girl making out and stripping down.

He then starts knocking and wants to join I tell him no and locked the door which she was happy with supposedly.

She told me after I locked the door she brought up (which she’s done several times now) LDR and making things serious even though I’m moving 6+ hours away. Between that discussion and me turning it down my friend ended back in the room (iirc after I shut down the LDR she told me to allow him back in which she denies my friend confirms this)

Anyways as I’m passing out my mate started on her and we went for a while. I didn’t get too involved as I was not coherent. The girl told me today that she didn’t want him and kept pushing him off and saying no too him as he got more involved apparently he didn’t fuck her but done everything else, she acknowledged that I was passing out during her saying no to my best friend.

My best friend finished up and supposedly being a huge dick and very forceful (her words) the whole time (which is normal for him)

The next day she told me it was my friend that was the issue and that we/he took advantage of her. I made it very clear I don’t remember anything / I regret the situation more than anything.

I then get her a cab. Apparently the cab driver was speaking to her about going to the hospital (her words next day)

So leaves us with today. Once she left I sent a message hoping she got home ok and that I don’t remember what’s happened all that well. My mate tells one of the guys she’s friends with in which he dms her calling her a slut

Cue me waking up to phone calls from the girl saying she regrets everything, ‘can’t believe I didn’t stop this from happening, that she never wants to talk to me again. that we spread and told everyone, how she’s been vomiting and regrets everything and she feels disgusting and wants to go to the cops

My course of action was apologise say I didn’t allow anything to happen, if she didn’t want to see me again I’d be more than understanding, that my friendship with my best friend is on jeopardy from the way he conducted himself and that I’m sick and vomiting thinking about it,

Also said that I was on pain meds and had drank way too much and don’t remember anything, called my bestfriend and told him to fix things on his end (which my bestfriend did, he also got that friend to apologise and backtrack on the slut thing - said the reason he called her a slut was that he was jealous that she was with me and not him)

After talking a bit she wanted to catch up with me, and said she wouldn’t take this to the police if my friend didn’t tell anyone and left it alone and she hates that she couldn’t stop him etc.

I caught up with the girl once I had calmed her down on text and have been nice as fuck all day too her. Opened up about my feelings and said this changed nothing etc. and that I regret that I have to move away as I really like her etc. (stuff she’s been dying to hear from me pretty much - cunt move lying? Maybe but I feel so fkn bad)

I don’t have any feelings for her, I did cut her off recently as I have other plates I prefer and haven’t seen her in a While before this happened and had no intention of seeing her again. So the fact I’m doing all this is strictly my way of making it up I don’t want to be seeing her.

The plan is currently string this out till I leave, give her the emotional side that she’s been chasing and hope my friend and I don’t get a headache, have some fun with her and treat her good and make her feel special for the next week (I have been very sweet and nice as opposed to a cocky smartass because I feel like shit and owe her that still passing her shit tests and keeping it light but also mixing in some softer things).

(Admitingly I am beyond disgusted and regret the way she got treated, it’s gonna haunt me In a sense I didn’t stop things and contributed.)

Also my friend involved isn’t some suave stud. He has a terribLe track record with girls and he is ‘Everyman for himself’ in that sense (will target other friends GFs etc) not blessed in the looks department and his game has never been great not the first time he’s had a girl ‘regret’ things on him.

Anything else I can do to cover my tracks / make sure she’s ok? I sorted my friend out, I’m texting her a lot and have plans to meet her again. - am I in trouble here? If she does go to police are we both fucked or would it just be my friend?

Will she go in a month or two once I’ve left and maybe target him?

Any advice please I am still paranoid over this whole ordeal (a lot of the events are from what she’s said compared to my bestfriend and me drawing my own conclusions. Probably not 100% accurate)