Being a 10 makes things a hell of a lot easier than if you're a 4. Coaches won't talk about how being attractive and higher value makes the game easier. Have you ever noticed how most coaches are generally a 8-10? Yet, they coach 4-6s the same techniques and have them believe it will work the same.

Don't get me wrong, it can work for you, and there are plenty of men out there that have done well, but its so much easier when you have a higher value.

Value with men is much different from value with women. Value for women is almost uniquely attributable to their beauty. Of course there are other values, but my initial approach will be determined by how the girl looks, if she's ugly then I'm not going to bother learning that she has a PHD and fights zombies on the weekend. Men will overlook small problems if the girl is drop dead gorgeous; or they'll just sleep with her and not build a relationship. Oh, you live at home with your parents and are a member of the Klan, cool, well I'll pick you up Tuesday?

The status of men is different. We have a value set based on our initial appearance, but its not defined by beauty alone. If a man is gorgeous and tall, but hides in the corner of the room with poor posture, bad eye contact and anti social behavior then he won't be considered attractive.

A man can quickly turn from a 4 to a 6-7 fairly quickly. Work on eye contact, posture, and clothes. Best way to improve eye contact is to play a few games. Go out to a club, look people in the eye for 2-4 seconds and don't lose eye contact, then smile and continue your night. If you're up to it, then go up and approach and talk with the person. If you do this game long enough, you realize that men that are more dominant than you will not break eye contact, and if you subconsciously view yourself as less dominant then your gaze will go down. Work on it and eventually your eye contact will improve.

Posture is just holding yourself up correctly. This will take a while to perfect, but I would suggest googling your issues as there are many games and techniques available to help if you have problems with posture.

Clothes. This doesn't mean to wear expensive designer brand clothes, it simply means to wear semi nice things and to take care of them so that they last longer. Have a nice pair of shoes, a nice belt, a watch, pants and a good shirt. Past that its up to you. I'm not a pusher for peacocking.

I am a big pusher for the gym, healthy eating, and adventuring. I strongly believe that your experiences in life change you, and can make you more attractive. An example would be holding authority over someone else, if you are in a position of determining someone else's fate it will add a level of attraction. You can volunteer to coach for a kids' sports team. Shooting a gun, going hunting, and successfully killing something is great appeal. You don't need to tell anyone about it, but it changes who you are and how you present yourself.

Traveling the world and seeing other cultures ads new levels to you. You can now talk a lot about new and exciting places, give insight into your adventures. Go snowboarding, skiing, white water rafting, bungee jumping, sky diving, anything that's adventurous and pushes your limits. Be the guy that people admire and think that is always doing something fun, not because you're deceptive about it, but because its true.

Don't let anyone change how you live your life. If you're going out with friends, then you're with them because you want to be not because you have to. If a woman wants you to change then move on, don't change key plans for around a woman you just met EVER. It comes off as extremely needy.

When you meet a girl, talk with her, get her information and communicate with her, then make plans seems natural and don't force things. You want to be allowing her to see your lifestyle, not making hers yours.

Above all. Make your life your priority, because no one else will. Find a career that earns you enough that you can travel and can afford to go out and party. Take courses in school to be better able to achieve these goals, or go out and acquire the tools needed.

Have fun with your life, its the longest thing you'll ever do, and the biggest party you'll ever have. I will add more later, but I have accomplished all of these goals, they're hard but can make things more fun.