Transitioning into non-exclusive/open relationships

kingcal · 2013-10-30T04:36:11+00:00

I would say that the only thing I don't really like about the whole article is that you never explicitly say you want an open relationship and that you will be dating other people. All you do is give some long cliche speech about rushing into a relationship being bad. It sounds nice and it may lower her expectations about what to expect from you for a bit, but I can still imagine any girl that found out you went out with someone else after hearing that speech would be pissed nonetheless. You've gotten her to agree to "take things slow", but that doesn't mean she's okay with you seeing other people.

I've never been in an open, committed relationship. I don't doubt that they can work. I just think you need to be completely upfront about it. I've been in plenty of FWB situations and all of the girls knew that I wasn't looking to date them and that I was currently either fucking other people or looking to fuck other people. Obviously, it was phrased a little more tactfully in the conversation.

camerondare · 2013-10-29T22:32:15+00:00

Happy to answer anybody's questions about the topic!

ActAct · 2013-10-30T03:10:30+00:00

I wish you posted this 3 days ago, BEFORE I hit the "What are we?" mine

Title	Transitioning into non-exclusive/open relationships
Author	camerondare
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	October 29, 2013 9:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1phs92/transitioning_into_nonexclusiveopen_relationships/
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