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How Embracing Vulnerability Can Make You Infinitely More Confident (And End Up Hurting You Less In The Long Run.)

camerondare

July 27, 2012

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Title	How Embracing Vulnerability Can Make You Infinitely More Confident (And End Up Hurting You Less In The Long Run.)
Author	camerondare
Upvotes	16
Comments	11
Date	July 27, 2012 9:49 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/x9pgi/how_embracing_vulnerability_can_make_you/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-embracing-vulnerability-can-make-you.1336294 https://theredarchive.com/post/1336294

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[–]smokintreesinatree 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]camerondare[S] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Hey! I totally agree. I think it's incredibly important. I was involved in PUA for a long time and I felt this topic wasn't touched on much. It's interesting because if you think about the goal of "PUA"... or at least, the original goal of most guys who get into it, it's to get a girlfriend and have a healthy long-term relationship with her. To have a healthy long-term relationship with a girl that they get to choose, not one they have to settle for.

In order to do this, developing an ACTUAL connection with the girl is going to be very important. It's something I feel is lost a lot in most of the common "PUA" theory - the actual connection. Teasing and being playful are great but what about when you get down to having a real conversation? You can only tease and be playful for so long, and it will only take you so far.

I've found being vulnerable is a great way to truly connect. Insecurities are unattractive, being vulnerable is sexy.

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