Fear to close the deal?

Seddit_Participant · 2013-11-06T22:15:45+00:00

Just start spending time with people. Girls, guys, whoever. Go somewhere that sounds fun and hang out. Do something that sounds fun. Find a group that seems fun that you can try hanging out with. The beauty of life experience is that it's the easiest thing in the world to get - you just have to go out and live. Make some massive mistakes, that's where your fun stories and worthwhile experiences are going to come from.

And stop thinking of closing that deal as a short term emergency goal. Instead, just have fun hanging out with girls, make some mistakes, screw up completely, and learn from it. You'll get there.

Just don't beat yourself up over not having life experience or now knowing how to deal with girls. Yes, you're going to make mistakes because of this stuff. It does. not. matter. The mistakes you're going to make are valuable.

Pit_Sweat · 2013-11-06T23:20:44+00:00

Don't be so outcome dependent buddy. Just be in the moment, focus on making the experience fun for BOTH of you, and things will fall into place.

A lot of guys think the f or k is where the effort goes, but really it goes into all the time leading up to that. If you did well, the f or k practically happens on its own.

Mr-E-Relevont · 2013-11-07T00:30:16+00:00

go skydiving

joshsway · 2013-11-06T22:15:51+00:00

Let your hormones take over and close! Failure to close when the opportunity is there is one of the BIGGEST mistakes men make, and they make it ALL the time. Even many experts make this mistake.

Title	Fear to close the deal?
Author	thathraw
Upvotes	13
Comments	5
Date	November 6, 2013 9:25 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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