How many girls do you approach, and what percentage of those girls do you sleep with?

joshsway · 2013-11-12T22:02:42+00:00

You will get very large differences in range that will be highly misleading. You cannot avoid the numbers game. For example, if you have a high percentage of lays / approaches it means that you are very selective about who you approach. Likewise if your lay/approach ratio is bad, it could most likely be because you do tons of cold approaches.

hulk181 · 2013-11-13T15:27:10+00:00

I dont get why people here cant just answer honestly. I'll try to.

This past year, I've approached about 60 women. Got 1 lay out of that. Ive gotten about 5 numbers and dates through those though. I really need to go out more and approach more. . Part of that is because I don't have any real wingmen. I have buddies i go out with but they like to chode out and discourage me from going up to girls instead of being good wingmen. I'm still having some trouble solo gaming.

I have a lot better luck with online game. I wrote a cocky/funny profile and been doing well with it. Ive gotten a ton of numbers but i seem to mess up when it comes to the actual date. I think i still get nervous sometimes, especially if she's kind of hot or shows some cleavage. I've met about 15 girls this past year through online dating sites. They say your online profile is like 24/7 game and I believe that. I've had 3 lays and 2 bjs from those dates plus a few more k closes.

puaCurveBall · 2013-11-12T22:20:30+00:00

This is a horrible question.

Guys who are super amazing at game aren't approaching because either they have found an amazing woman who they are exclusive with, or are dating 3+ women who keep their time completely busy.

This method self selects for guys who are unable to hold a woman's attention for more than a ONS.

The best in the world get about 6% of their cold approaches to turn into sex.

You should be having sex around 80-95% of dates.

The ratio of of numbers means nothing. Some guys have a 99% number to sex ratio, and some guys can get a dozen numbers a night that don't pan anywhere.

2013-11-12T22:21:14+00:00

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HappyJerk · 2013-11-13T04:18:19+00:00

Silly question.

The success percentage on a cold approach depends on so many factors that you're never going to get a good idea. If you go to a neighborhood bar where everybody knows each other you're going to have a much different success rate than if you went to a nightclub in vegas where all the girls are from out of town and just want to get freaky.

Also, nobody really keeps count.

But the bottom line is that cold approaching DOES work, you just can't get discouraged

arbolesdefantasia · 2013-11-13T05:36:18+00:00

great question. i am also curious to hear

St0pReadingThis · 2013-11-13T02:08:48+00:00

I've kinda been wondering this too. Not to attack anybody, but sometimes I wonder if cold approaching is really worth it. Sometimes I feel like the only people who advocate cold approach are the people trying to make money off of guys doing it (selling how to books and advice) and their followers, who might just blurt out ideals from their PUA coach or whatever without actually finding success themselves.

Again, I'm not trolling here, these are just the thoughts that run through my head sometimes. I guess it doesn't help that I don't personally know anyone who has really worked on their cold approach skills.

Title	How many girls do you approach, and what percentage of those girls do you sleep with?
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Date	November 12, 2013 9:40 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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