I'm 27. I haven't masturbated in a year and a half. I remember the day I finally managed to quit like it was yesterday. I thought doing that would be enough to get rid of any semblance of PIED (porn-induced erectile dysfunction) left in my system, but apparently not.

2 months ago I broke up (amicably) with my LTR of about a year. She didn't do anything wrong, sex was good, I was just bored.


In the past two months I took two random girls to my bed. First time with HB6, I got hard and stayed hard with the condom on, and we had sex no problem. Only issue was I came prematurely - pretty sure I came in like a minute.

Second time on that same day with HB6, I would get hard and put the condom on, but would quickly lose my hard-on. Couldn't stay hard long enough to put my dick inside her. Didn't cum at all.

Third time on that same day with HB6 she gets me hard and so we try again. Same issue, put the condom on, dick goes soft, can't have sex. This time I ended up cumming into the condom like a loser.


Second girl, HB5, happened a few weeks after the HB6 above. I made her cum with my fingers, but I could never get a good hard-on. Tried putting on a condom anyway, but it was to no avail. She ended up giving me a blowjob/handjob until I came.


Now here's the kicker. A couple weeks ago, after the bad experiences with the girls above, I spent a weekend with my ex. Like I said, we broke up amicably. Anyway, I never wore a condom during our relationship, and again didn't do so that weekend.

Sex was great. We fucked once Friday, twice Saturday, twice Sunday. There was no trace of premature ejaculation, no sign of erectile dysfunction, nothing. Just quality reasonably-long sex that makes her feel good.


So that's it guys. I know this is asktrp and I'm supposed to ask a question.

So am I broken? Is there no other way I can have sex besides getting into a relationship with a girl until I trust her enough to go bareback? What should I do?