Do I let my best friend know his girl is sneaking?

IfoundAnneFrank · 2018-10-30T21:18:47+00:00

I'd tell him, but I have no problem playing bad cop. My friends, after knowing each other for years now, appreciate this trait in me by now. But they didn't at first. You might be doing something good for him, but you're going to look like bad cop. At least if it's your best friend he should understand.

BuckNekkid18 · 2018-10-30T19:58:52+00:00

If it was my best friend, yeah I'd tell him but not right away, be careful with the fact that she matched with you. She will pull the "i was just playing around with the app" shit.

Plan this carefully

madhguru · 2018-10-30T20:46:26+00:00

Who the fuck is dating girls from tinder...why get in his business now, that's like telling someone smoking is bad for you after they flick the butt.

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2018-10-30T20:32:01+00:00

Just say- “I was swiping right on every single girl and I checked my matches. Look who the fuck I just matched with bro”

FearGarbhArMait · 2018-10-30T19:57:12+00:00

It's not your problem, better to find out after he finds out.

Bedtimeshine · 2018-10-30T20:38:46+00:00

Or course you tell him. It’s your friend... it is your circus.

CainPrice · 2018-10-30T21:24:40+00:00

Your friend knows Tinder is for casual sex, right? Not for finding love. If he doesn't, he's about to learn.

Go ahead and tell him. Women don't just update their Tinder profiles with new pictures for funsies. If they're boyfriend-girlfriend, arguably they shouldn't be on Tinder any more at all anyway and should have deleted their profiles and uninstalled the app. Might as well save him the heartache of a few more months of wasted time.

[deleted] · 2018-10-30T20:58:36+00:00

Yep. Tell him.

creating_my_life · 2018-10-30T21:03:30+00:00

of course.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-10-30T21:37:43+00:00

If you tried to stir him right and he still wont listen, there's nothing you can do for him. Id advise you to distance yourself from him because his beta problems will drag u down.

If u want to try one final thing, I'd say make a move on his girl behind his back on tinder and send him screenshots when she incriminates herself with some wild shit. BUT, before you do that, you need to record a video of yourself saying what you're about to do. So that it she somehow flipsbthe script on you and says that you're thebone whobaplroached her, you can always show your buddy the video.

Title	Do I let my best friend know his girl is sneaking?
Author	IfoundAnneFrank
Upvotes	2
Comments	21
Date	October 30, 2018 7:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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