I just got into a relationship with a very independent F[21] (who becomes very girly when we are alone together). By months end we will have been together for 1 month. But im going away on holiday for 2 weeks tomorrow.

How should I approach communication between the 2 of us inorder to make sure that tension still remains once I get back? (I know, it sounds straight forward but the circumstances make it a bit different)

Details:

  • She doesn't have access to any IM services. Nor does she use facebook that often.

  • My text games isn't the best, I use it to basically makes plans and have short conversations when people message me. Leave the talking when you're face to face i've learned

  • I'm going to be in a different time zone and I'll be spending very little time at my hotel, so it will be difficult to skype with her.

  • She raised the topic about us talking while im away and said that "I'm not the kind of girl that needs to hear from you when your away, I understand your on holiday" -> what i've learned about girls; everything is a test one way or another

  • She loves the idea of an independent caring gentlemen (Which is also the "Alpha" persona I've begun to grown into since last year, with the help of this sub, but I still have some way to go obviously). So while I would loved to drop her a message everyday asking how her day was and filling her in on how my day went, I know that behaviour would come off as clingy.

While i've had some great success with woman lately thanks to this subreddit :D I don't know how to approach this particular situation to insure that the relationship/sexual tension is still there when I return home.

TL;DR Just got into a relationship, going away for 2 weeks. How do i insure that once I come back the relationship/sexual tension is still there?