I thought I'd share an experience that happened to me a few months ago that may put some perspective on how you view seduction.

The quote that was ringing in my head was by Alan Roger Currie and it was along the lines of, "The only thing you should focus on when picking up a woman is to turn her on."

Now to the story:

I was out with a few friends at a bar one night. We joined an all female group that knew one of the guys who was with us. I was sandwiched between two girls, who neither of grabbed my interest.

As I had one ear on the table and my eye on the rest of the bar, in hopes of seeing something that would catch my interest, my concentration was broken. One of the girls next to me hinted something sexual that caught my attention. She then whispered something in my ear and I found myself fantasizing. At this point, I found myself fully engaged into the girl who I didn't give two fucks about initially. She turned me on! I saw an ugly duck turn into a beautiful swan before my eyes. And I had an amazing evening!

I believe that men are much shallower than women when it comes to looks. We concern ourselves so much with our appearance because it's us that want this from the women. We think like men, and we can never think like women.

If this girl was able to turn around a shallow guy's mentality about taking her home, then each and every one of you guys has the ability to pick up ANY WOMAN YOU FIND DESIRABLE. Period.

I thought I'd just share that with you.