Okay so I've been a lurker here on wedding for about 4 months. Backstory, 8 months ago me and my ex who I was with for 5 years split up and totally ruined my confidence. Since then, I've had a few hookups, but mostly because the girls were attracted to me and they went for it. Today, I made my first real approach. I was finishing up a workout at the gym and this girl sits down next to me and starts to stretch. I notice she was crazy hot (HB9) and flexible. She was busting out stretches that I can even think about doing. I considered talking to her, but was incredibly nervous. After 5 minutes of dicking around trying to work up my courage, I turned to her, made eye contact and smiled. She took her headphones out, "Hey I'm patrick" she smiles back and introduces herself. At this point all I can hear is my heartbeat and my hands are shaking like crazy. "This might seem forward, but can I call you sometime to meet up for drinks?" I stammered, (I'm sure she could tell how nervous I was) she says yes and I give her my phone, tell her I'll call her in a few days, and jet. I've never been so nervous in my life but that was totally exhilarating, I can't wait to approach the next girl!