Hey seddit,

I live in a big college town and I go out 2-3 times a week to the bars downtown with my friends. I've noticed with girls, my biggest sticking point has been moving things past a conversation. I'm great at holding a conversation with a girl I've just met, but I have a hard time progressing forward. Lately I've been trying to lead more by moving around the bar with them and eventually suggesting they barhop with a few of my friends. They always have an excuse to stay with their friends and tell me to text them wherever I end up and they'll meet up. At this point, my success rates drop pretty badly because it's hard to meet up with them. I'm wondering how to fix this, or if there's any way to execute this better?