Going on a "friend date", i want to escalate

9Tskid · 2014-01-19T08:48:46+00:00

Just don't make her regret going along as a friend. Don't drop hints that you want more it'd just make it really awkward for her, even worse so if she isn't interested.

Include her in conversation and don't focus completely on her. More or less treat her as a friend, this will lead to another time you can catch up.

I personally wouldn't have organised a time with your friends especially couples. One, she might not enjoy your friends company, I'm assuning you don't know her very well. Two what if she doesn't show, super awkward for you, even worse if she is interested and something legite happened then your friends may have a bad taste about her.

Good luck none the less, just be yourself. I'm not frequent to this sub but if you're looking for a girlfriend be yoursel but your best self. Don't act like something you're not even worse don't show her your worst self.

I once had a friend who I would never introduce to my other friends purely because he had an attitude like "fuck them if they don't like me. It's who I am." What lesson I took from him is that his current friends got to know the good and the bad. The good weighed out the bad most of the time but the difference was we knew both. If you show a girl the good most of the the time but still the bad and she still likes you for what she knows then it might all work out. Unless you're a cunt.

Alexfortomorrow · 2014-01-19T09:10:57+00:00

Rule #1: KINO ALL THE THINGS! You have to create some sexual tension between the two of you. Touching is a great non-verbal start in order to create comfort and escalate properly.

Rule #2: don't behave like her gay-friend to which she tells everything. Every girl has at least one, don't let it be you though.

puaCurveBall · 2014-01-19T09:16:57+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

I believe the term "Friendzone" applies to your question, I URGE you to read this post.

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Title	Going on a "friend date", i want to escalate
Author	badum-tss
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	January 19, 2014 7:46 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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