I've read the sidebar, read the TRM books etc. I still really can't find clarity in the following. I hope you guys can help me.
Questions are bold,
Question 1
What kind of life should a women have acording to TRP? TRP frames accurate how a life of a Red pill man should optimally be. But as I see it, it does not do the same for women. It only says that women has to be aware of consequences of certain picks through her life. One of the biggest is how she spends her party years. Like most women today that think they can have it all. Alpha fucks/beta bucks, at the same time making a career. All of a suddenly she is 29, hit the wall and has no kids or a man. She gets stressed out and gets a blue pill guy, have kids. Then years goes on, she propably divorce the guy in a few years. But what happends then? Because hypergamy is still running the business. But her SMV is low so not many people want her? I she just gonna take care of her kids and try to excel in her career?
This is how I see the ideal life for a women according to red pill.
She should get together with a guy who's older than her. She should do this at the age of 20-25. She should have kids when at lates 25, if she want kids. During this she can not expect to have a career in the same extent as the man. So she just go on with her life taking care of the kids and working with her job? Then what? Presumed that he is red pilled her hypergamy doesn't run the business so she will no take out a divorce and leave the man, they are staying together until they die? Or what is happening?
Question 2
I've talking about the red pill with my mother. She agrees with some of it, she's reading TRM right now. However, she thinks that men cheats more than women and the biggest issue she has with men is this: That a alot of women are not financial independent if she rely on the man, not making a career etc. The man will propably leave her after say 15-20 years in the marriage for a younger woman, (like it would be a standard procedure for men to do this) then she will have a really tough life and it is the man's fault because she relied on the man. If you think of the red pill ideal life of women, this could be a reailty for a women, or what do you think? How do I explain this?
Because I have never heard a Red pill discuss this. TRP says that women can't have everything. So they have to give up something. My mother is pretty pissed at men who's leaving their woman like this. However she rarely mention hypergamy, even though she is aware of it and sometimes talks to me about how some of her co-workers just did a textbook example of hypergamy.
Question 3
She is a career women and rasied me herself with some help of her parents. She is vice president of an government agency of 10 000 people. The reson why she is pissed at this phenomen of men leaving their women is becasue my dad left her. They were togehter for 4 years, not married, decided to try having kids. My mom caught my dad cheating, but before she confronted him, he told her that he's gonna leave her for another women. This new women where 2 years younger, around same look. A couple of weeks later my mother figured out she was pregnant with his kid. She called him about it. Since then she as never had a realtionship with a man what i know of. That is atlest what she says. This was in the 1990'. My mother has a very strange perspective of sex. Like it disquest her. She really hate porn, she really hate dressing "sexual." She is completely incapable of dressing sexual or attracting. She definitely don't want to flirt or anything with a guy or have anything like that to do. It's like she is asexual.
The move my father made, I've never encounterd on TRP, or the strange attitude towards sex and men that my mother has. Why do think my father did like that and why's my mother like this do you think?
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