Hello red pillers, when I was a kid I used to believe I can't live without a woman. My family would tell me otherwise but I wouldn't unplug, now in my 23 after taking the red pill I've unplugged really much and see further.

sometimes though, I really feel my inner blue pill conditioning fighting to get on top of the red pill one. I must have unplugged halfway or the wrong way, without fully reading Rollo's books etc. and finishing them. How do I unplug pretty quick for now?

The case is because a girl I had been plating and now we're slowly non-verbally transitioning into relationship dynamics, spend more time together etc. mentioned a party about tomorrow where you pick up a number, and then you can accept or send written pick up lines to who you like in the club. She mentioned it, and said she might go but not take part in the 'dating concept' and asked me to go with her. Said maybe she was going because it's her schools party and want to support raising money for trips.

I don't like this idea, not at all. Should I bring it up and set boundaries? Tell her that if she chooses to go there then there is clearly no need for me to attend, not only the party but her life in general and ghost afterwards?

I haven't a clue what to do right now.