Latest chick about to end it.Best way to handle it?

reformingfeature · 2014-04-22T10:11:51+00:00

maybe she just wants to discuss anal/threesomes/anal threesomes?

imathrowaway9 · 2014-04-22T08:26:03+00:00

"ooh, this sounds bad...." Definitely don't do this. "Sure, call at 11. :)" I'd get rid of the smilie and go with this. Or do I just don't reply. Kind of immature.

If she does end it, there are two things you can/should do.

1.If you feel like you have something to learn from understanding her perspective, then ask her these questions. Don't be a bitch about it, just try to gain some insight. Realize her answers might be bull shit, but you can still infer knowledge from them. 2. If you aren't worried about learning anything and you know where things went wrong, just accept it. Say you agree things aren't working out and let things rest for a while.

"Do I just listen to her and say, ok? Do I make her skip to the point, or do I just stop her and say I get it?" Don't assume what you don't know and try to push the point earlier than she wants to bring it up. Don't be all fake polite, or insecure once things start to go south. Just man up and have a straight forward conversation.

EliahtheMessiah · 2014-04-22T12:38:36+00:00

You're already in a scarcity mindset with this one girl, if she ends it, you fucked up, learn from it.

Find another one. Get her for a meet up and talk in person, not text, or over the phone.

All this projecting on this one girl does is hurt you in the long run, really differentiate what is real and what is projected, snap out of it!

puaCurveBall · 2014-04-22T17:17:32+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

HappyJerk · 2014-04-22T16:23:33+00:00

Sounds like you make a common mistake: you get too needy and that scares the girl off. Once you've made that fuckup, there is no real way to recover. Even if you act non-needy for a long-ass time she will still remember you being needy and that you have it in you. So there is no real point in worrying about your "reaction" to this dumping. You just need to let it happen and worry about fixing yourself for next time.

TLDR: you're fucked

But, if you REALLY wanted to salvage it, you should do something like this: "I would love to talk to you, but I'm really busy today, how about tomorrow." You're already acting non-needy. It's probably too little, too late. And then when she dumps you, without even a hint of sadness just be like "Hey, well I really enjoyed our time together, and I hope we can be friends in the future."

EliahtheMessiah · 2014-04-22T10:13:44+00:00

Why would she put a smiley face if she wants to end it

tajbinjohn · 2014-04-22T12:59:07+00:00

Dump her first...

Title	Latest chick about to end it.Best way to handle it?
Author	EliahtheMessiah
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	April 22, 2014 7:49 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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