Hello seddit,

Today I had sort of an epiphany, so bear with me while I dump my thoughts onto you.

If you are trying to use tricks and be sneaky with women, it is like you are hunting a beast in the wilderness; not only will it be really hard to catch that beast if you are just beginning to hunt, but you will scare the beast away and it will be close to impossible for you to get the beast close to you.

Even if you do succeed in hunting down the beast, what you will be left with is its dead, cold carcass that you can hang on a wall as a trophy to feed your ego.

Now, instead of trying to hunt the beast down, you could try and get close to it, try and to open yourself towards it. Yes, sometimes the beast will not like you and move away from you, maybe even try to maim you, but sometimes you connect with the beast, and you are left with something much more than a lifeless "achievement" on your wall, you just gained a companion to accompany you in your journey.