I have a gf, but I want to improve my social skills with girls

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-04-26T16:01:06+00:00

depending on how you look at it approaching girls is a great ( wink ) or pretty bad idea. try being sociable with your girlfriends' girlfriends. you're fucked either way if your gf is the jealous type though

social_scrying · 2014-04-26T18:01:53+00:00

if you want to get better at social skills with girls, you have to apply them to girls in social settings. This is a bottom line.

You dont have to actively flirt with girls you talk to. Try looking at other girls as just people who are looking to have a fun conversation with someone new. The more comfortable you become with these settings, the easier it is to let your mind flow and stop having to actively think about what you are going to say next. When you are comfortable, those around you will become comfortable as well. This is a life skill, not necessarily a seduction skill.

To address the fact you have a girlfriend: Become the best you can be, regardless of whether or not your girlfriend wants you to talk to other girls. If she is adamant on you not being social with HALF of the social population, there seems to be a larger problem in your relationship. Jealousy is, to a large extent, natural and can be a good thing IF APPLIED PROPERLY. Its your job to make sure she knows your relation is not in jeopardy. If you are in a position where your passive social skills clearly make other girls like you, your girlfriend should realize you have social status and are someone to value.

Title	I have a gf, but I want to improve my social skills with girls
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Date	April 26, 2014 3:43 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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