The limits of Seddit as an Asian

sneekee_11 · 2014-04-30T05:40:24+00:00

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RandianHero · 2014-04-30T06:05:00+00:00

I don't know how it is on the mainland, but I spent some time in Jeju and my experience wasn't in the slightest bit similar to what you described. Then again, I'm a white American and my Korean is about as good as my Japanese or Thai -- which is to say, not at all. The novelty factor may have had something to do with it, or maybe the fact that almost all of my communication had to be nonverbal. But I found Koreans to be a warm, inviting group of people, and the girls seemed to have no problem getting physical with me.

I think this problem might be in your head, man.

HappyJerk · 2014-04-30T06:05:59+00:00

Now, an easy solution is: get the fuck out of that group, and pick up more normal girls.

Yes, that's the solution.

Look, you're not going to change these girls. Changing somebody's values that they have been ingrained with their entire life is extremely difficult. It's not worth it, especially if you just want to fuck them. What goal are you trying to achieve? Are you trying to get married? If so, just marry them. But if you just want to fuck them, it's probably not going to happen. I'm sure that, as laserfocus says, a lot of them behave badly when people aren't looking, but you can't spend your life trying to roll the dice and hope you get one of the crazy ones. And, no offense, a lot of those "crazy," rebellious ones probably don't even want to fuck conservative guys - they probably want to fuck the biggest, blackest, non-Korean guy they can find.

Yes, you can fuck them. No, it's not worth it, especially if it means lying to them and pretending like you want to marry them.

And none of your reasons for wanting to pick up normal girls are worth a shit.

puaCurveBall · 2014-04-30T07:08:33+00:00

Dude, you are setting yourself up a game you can't win.

Guys point out that Korean girls ARE more frisky in private, and you counter with a "No True Scotsman" fallacy where you exclude the girls that are doing what you want to do!

What is the point of this post? You've already made your mind up.....

2014-04-30T05:55:03+00:00

Oh god this. This really resonates with me man.

How do you deal with Asian girls like that. I just feel the game is so different, but instinctively feel it shouldn't be.

I can't escalate and kino as quickly as I want, so I need to shoot to become a boyfriend with a limited seduction toolset. Once I become a boyfriend, it's smooth sailing from there.

But how the hell to get to that point.

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Title	The limits of Seddit as an Asian
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Date	April 30, 2014 5:32 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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