I just thought I'd post this as I'm probably doing it wrong and someone probably has a way better approach. But often I'm at like a social gathering like an art gallery event and I am talking to girls I'm interested in and I just say "take my number I'd love to invite you out to an event". Then I get stuck not having the ability to invite them to something like a date, they put me in their business file for non-dating business contacts. Do you guys go out of your way to ask if they have a boyfriend? I tend to forget that part or is that too direct?

I feel that often when I know getting laid seems to be if they're giving signs and signals they're down and that's usually easy because they keep texting you or whatever days afterward but that's usually not the ones I want. But how do I get the ones who aren't exactly interested from the get go like texting you and hitting you up on FB days after, the ones you actually like? I don't know if you guys define PUA as just trying to hook up with a chick that night.

So three questions.

1.What do you do after you're having an interesting conversation and you want to hook up with them? Do you do some physical contact? or do you try to do something memorable, what's your closing trick?

2.What is your follow up move like the next day or a few days later to see if you can get anywhere with them?

3.Is there anything you try to avoid doing when you close?