I'm going to a show/rave tonight and I'm trying to solve what I think my biggest issue is: success. I really don't have much game and I'm terrible with women, but when I'm in my element, I have a natural charisma and confidence that attracts girls to me. Because I'm not like that in the other 98% of life, I have no idea what to do. Even recognizing their attraction in the moment was a huge issue and I got plenty of shit for my friends.

I've got that part handled now. But after I recognize attraction and jump on it by approaching, I have no clue what to do from there at a venue where the main focus is loud ass music and hardstyle (kind of prohibits grinding or anything like that). I literally don't know how to dance with someone there or how to actually build connections when there's little opportunity for a conversation.

Does anyone have experience picking up at EDM venues, especially the more ravey/hardstyle kind? Don't be afraid to overcomplicate and throw a bunch of technical info and steps you would use. I'm much better at taking a bunch of specific and technical shit and making it natural than taking general advice for what's essentially a how-to. Thanks, guys!