My game is weak

Pit_Sweat · 2014-06-08T23:41:03+00:00

I display confident body language. Good inner and outer game.

No offense but obviously not. And dude, you ask all these questions and want to know what you're doing wrong but you're not giving us any details on what you're actually doing. How can we help you? You're basically saying "I'm doing everything right what am I doing wrong?" It doesn't even make any sense. Post a field report or something, be subjective with yourself, and then we'll see what we can do.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-06-09T04:13:03+00:00

We can't really solve your problems for you. We don't know the details of your situation, even the info you gave us is all biased by your negative self-perceptions. We don't even know how old you are.

It is probably good that you are dissatisfied with what you are doing and what results you get. Most guys never see anything wrong with what they're doing, so they do it over and over and never change, and never get any results. But you see enough of your situation that one thing is obvious: you have to change. What you're doing is not making you happy.

I would guess that the problem is not that you are doing inappropriate things, it is that you are beating yourself up over doing anything that is you think was a mistake. Your message sounds like "rumination," where you go over and over your mistakes and you get stuck in a loop of self-defeating thoughts that you can't get out of. If you feel depressed like this, and it gets really bad, I'd suggest seeing a professional like a therapist or counselor to help you deal with these feelings.

It is important to be happy and enjoy the process of talking to women and developing your skills at making an emotional connection. You may have to put seduction on hold and just work on making some women friends that you can talk to and expect nothing sexual. Start small. And realize that everything you try will fail, until one day you succeed. Every attempt, every failure is an experience that will help you develop into a success.

HorseLifer · 2014-06-09T06:22:05+00:00

Alot of pickup is based around the idea that men need to 'build attraction' to meet a girl. This is seen in the constant dwelling on posture, tonality, direct approaches, kino escalation and the like.

This can be okay, but the PROBLEM is that it doesn't come from a firm foundation of self acceptance. You haven't really come into acceptance for who you are as a man.

You can bang 10, 20, 200 girls, but without understanding 'you are enough' you will never feel fulfilled by it. That's the cold hard truth.

psyocal · 2014-06-09T06:34:11+00:00

I know what your problem is. It's the most common problem: you're constantly in your head

There's a good chance these women don't actually find you creepy. But you convince yourself otherwise. You're probably entering a conversation while thinking, "okay, don't be creepy, don't be creepy...shes probably going to think im creepy"

You're going into battle defeated. And they can sense it. Nobody wants a loser.

Focus on what you want. Do you know what you want? Walk up to her and TELL HER WHAT YOU WANT. Don't tell her what you think she'll want you to say. <--- the day you fully comprehend that is the day you will become a machine.

Title	My game is weak
Author	DaimaoS69
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	June 8, 2014 11:26 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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