Background: Girl A is my roommate's FWB that hangs out with us. My roommate is in another state this summer for an internship.

So this past Friday A invites me over to a small party. I bring my 5 or so people with me and when we get there it totals not quite 20 people, which is totally my scene. I started doing a nightly ritual before I go out to try and get out of introvert mode, 3 sets of pushups while blasting Iron Maiden then a cup of coffee, have friends coming show up to my place first for an hour or so, get the the party early so there isn't an overwhelming amount of people and you can greet people as they come in.

I did all of these things, I was in the zone, I was having fun. Girl B I had met a few times before, she'd been to big house parties at my house but I'd never really talked to her. When we switched from playing flip cup to drinking Jenga (things you have to do written on the blocks) I started talking to her a bit. She was flirting with the dude who lived there and he was being an AFC, but whatever. I flirted with A a bit too. B was responding well to kino and wasn't being a tease which she's known to do hard.

Eventually my friends wanted to leave, but A and B and I wanted to keep playing Jenga so I told them to leave me there, and then it was only 6 of us, including the 3 guys that lived there. AFC guy gave up on B and went to sleep, so did another, so it was just 4 of us playing Jenga having a great time.

After we finished the 5th game or so A and B decided to leave.

What I should have done: "I don't know these guys so I'll leave with you. No, my house is out of the way I'll just crash with one of you."

What I did: "My house is out of your way I'll just stay here."

As soon as I said it I realized I was an idiot. I slept there and one of the guys who lived there drove me home in the morning. Overall I had a great time but made one little mistake.

Be careful guys, outcome independence helps a lot but you can't forget to ABC.

tl;dr was having fun, forgot to close