Whatsup guys... Getting straight into it, im in a bit of a pickle. Im a 19 year old male who has been training for about 2 and a half years in the gym and can comfortably say my physique is above average. Without sounding cocky and arrogant, people even come up to me and compliment me.

Iv been at the same gym for the whole 2.5 years and i often meet new people who will train for a week or month or 6 months or however long who then leave, but recently a Personal trainer has began coming to my gym, i see her in the gym 3x a week.

At the beginning we would just stare at each other, I found her really attractive and i guess she was just staring at my physique as i am on a low bodyfat percentage ( dont mean to boast, forgive me ). After seeing her the 3rd time, i found her stretching where i would train abs, so as i was training abs i generated a conversation with her and we began talking to each other. I discovered she was 27 years old and i told her i was 19.

After about a week, we were familiar with each other and always said hey how are you, i would occasionally stick my tongue out at her or wink from a distance to say hi and she would always just smile. Within the week after we began talking more and getting to know each other and share a few laughs amongst each other. We had a good connection going, no awkwardness or tough moments, we shared pictures of each other in the past and had a good time etc.

because shes a personal trainer, she often has free time to do what she wants in between clients, she now usually comes and sits down with me whilst i train and we talk. Sometimes she helps me train.

3 days ago she helped me train calves as its a lagging point of mine ( isnt it a lagging point of us all :P ), we had a laugh in the progress and out of the blue she told me she had to go and to take her number down... Because my phone was at a distance, i gave her my number instead and she said she'll text me after training to see how i liked the workout. Awesome right? A girl asked ME for MY number. I was so happy. But here is where the confusion begins.

She texts me an hour later, asks how it went, and we exchanged about 2 messages with each other. She didnt reply to my last message i sent her for some reason, but rather, she continued the conversation the next day when she seen me. I got annoyed she didnt reply. Why ask for my number if your not going to reply right?

Anyways, its been 2 days since i seen her, Not long at all, but im so confused. She hasn't sent me a message yet.

My problem is, why would she ask for my number but not keep in touch with me? Am i overreacting since its only been 2 days? I find this hard to digest because at the gym we get along so well and i can feel a connection of some sort but she doesnt message me. Reason why i find her messaging me important is because it will tell me that she genuinely enjoys my company and personality but she hasnt.

Now lets keep something in mind. Despite her physique and face, i find her sense of care really attractive. She looks after me well and always trys to help me with my problems BUT. I believe shes a lesbian. She was telling me how she was engaged to a girl but they broke up etc etc... Either shes a lesbian or bisexual.

On the last time we seen each other ( 2 days ago ), i had troubles generating normal conversations with her because i was so confused. I found her later on sitting with other PTs and having a laugh with them.

Im sorry for writing a book but my problem is as follows. WHY would she ask for my number but not stay in touch? She often sits around with other guys and has laughs and inside jokes with them more than me, am i just another guy to her? She is a lesbian/bi.. why would she want my number and always come next to me to talk?

PLEASE HELP GUYS... Sorry again for the book. It needed to be explained so i can paint the picture for you all.