So I met a nice HB 8.5 at the nightclub the other day. That night went well, K-closed and then set up a date. The date went extremely well except for one thing. Breakdown is as follows:

After talking to her for a while I found out this chick was pretty damn rich (she lives in southern orange county, CA - Think MTV's the hills). Add the fact that she's damn good looking and nearly as tall as me (I'm 5'8), I knew I had quite a bit of prepping to do in terms of inner game goes. What I feel really helped was forgetting about what I thought she would like in a guy, instead I found myself getting into the mindset of me being me and not giving a rat's ass about what she thinks. Getting dressed I thought about spiffing up in a dress shirt and nice khakis, but I later decided to fuck it and throw on my go to v-neck t and beater jeans. It's just what I felt comfortable being me in.

The next big aspect of this date going well is simple. Logistics, logistics, logistics! I can't stress this enough people! This is what really gave me the confidence to perk that game up and feel comfortable despite being with a girl I felt was out of my league.

First, create a timeline: I knew I wanted to take her to eat and then watch the fireworks at Disneyland.

Second, flesh out the details: 1. It'd be a long drive from her place to dinner near disneyland so I created a playlist of diverse songs that I could play to get a convo about music started. 2. I chose a restaurant that I was familiar with. This allowed me to give recommendations on the menu and create a leading (alpha) presence. I also knew that it'd be better to sit outside because it's usually loud in there. This fostered a deeper conversational connection. 3. What better way to enjoy fireworks at night than with hot chocolate? I prepped a thermos with hot chocolate and some blankets so we could camp out and share a warm drink (which was still very hot by the time we got there). This was also crucial to isolating her so we could have some privacy.

The kiss: We were sitting on the blankets enjoying our hot chocolate when I decided to lay (lie? idontfuckingknow) down. She then followed my lead and did the same. It's a pretty good IOI if she lays down as well. From there we continued talking (I used this time to future pace, setting up another date), but I could tell she was uncomfortable because the blanket was too small (good trick to pull hehe.) so I wrapped my arm around her so she could rest her head on my shoulder and stay on the blanket. From there, I continued to escalate the kino with arm rubbing, hair play etc. Now for the finisher: I asked her if she had any scary stories, to which she replied yes and began sharing it. Playfully I replied saying, "omg this is so scary" while pulling the blanket over our heads. Now that we were both under, going for the kiss was piss easy.

The night was still young after I had completed my timeline, so preparing/practising improvisation really helped me out here. We heard some music playing in downtown disney, so I decided to drag her over there to dance with me. It was nice jazzy/50's oldies music so I busted out my old swing dance moves with her and taught her some. (Learn some ballroom dance guys, it comes handy!) We then hit the arcade and then headed home. In the car ride, I reached for her hand and held it while I drove. Bold for a first date, but it definitely DHV's if you can pull it off. We then K-closed and the night ended.

Now for the advice needed: The next day I send her a good morning text. No reply. Later that day, she posts on her snapchat story of her out to dinner with her ex boyfriend. She then replies that night saying she was busy all day and that she has an exam coming up.

I wait about 4 days then give her a call, no answer. I really want to set up a day 2 but im pretty confused as to what is going on. Should I text her pretending that nothing is wrong and attempt to set up that day 2, or would that come off as pestering? What do you guys think?