I approach a shit load, and can say I don't have much AA anymore, have had countless interactions that lead to dates during the day; but today I was in line with this petite blonde, very pretty, we had eye contact, all that shit, before I would normally approach.
Accept, this time I didn't, I recognized the moment passing and the hesitation creeping in. The adrenaline kept pumping and I felt like I was too nervous to open, I had three things pop up immediately to open her with while in line even; in so many words:
- Direct: I saw you in line when I came up, and had to tell you you're the cutest girl I've seen today so far, I'm Alex
- Direct: So why did you need to check me out when I got in line with you? after we made eye contact
- Indirect (she was buying Monster drinks): Wow, you're a caffeine fiend, too?
This was the first girl of the day and all, I just wish I didn't have that anxiety creep up on me.
She made the situation even easier for me to approach by waiting for me at the door, and I still didn't do it.
Someone hit me. Please. Don't worry, I already hit myself!
What do you do if you feel AA creeping up even though you have conquered it? I guess I haven't now that I had it attack me and stop me from approaching, but even though I have all the right mentalities and preach them, it still slapped me. I'm going out more in a few hours and you guys need to inspire me. :)
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