What do you guys talk about on a first phone call, with zero prior background (getting # through friend)

reecewagner · 2014-08-07T13:53:37+00:00

there should be no fluff before asking her out. phone her, tell her there's a new place you've been meaning to try, and do the rest in person.

Bodegaz · 2014-08-07T16:36:49+00:00

I try to come off as fun on the phone. I've called girls immediately after getting their number online. Young girls (18-22) I found are usually shy and easy to bust their balls. Almost anything you say with enthusiasm will make them laugh.

But some things I've talked about are their voice. Like, I just wanted to hear their voice and make sure they didn't have a cave man voice. Try to set up a date, "you seem fun/cool/nice, I wanna meet you. There's x going on, wanna go?"

If they flake whatsoever in anyway, then I'll just be like "alright well it was nice talking to you, peace". (I'm ready to drop her without hesitation because abundance mentality whether it is true or not).

Most girls are actually chicken shit and get nervous when you call. I've called quite a few and I find it interesting when a girl can actually talk, is funny/witty, and not boring.

But yeah, you want fluff? Talk about anything, it's fluff so it doesn't matter, but keep it to a minimum cuz it gets boring and it's kinda meaningless. You can ask her what she's up to, how tall she is, then make fun of her for being short or tall. If she's short you can call her a midget and be like at least when we hug I can rest my chin on the top of your head so it all works out. Or if she's tall, you can say I've never dated a tall girl before, at least I won't have to bend down to kiss you. Just shit like that.

joshsway · 2014-08-07T16:36:35+00:00

I don't call, I just text to meet up.

Title	What do you guys talk about on a first phone call, with zero prior background (getting # through friend)
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Date	August 7, 2014 1:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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