Meeting up with a tinder girl

danure · 2014-09-05T15:37:17+00:00

If you've never met her before, you might want to at least introduce yourself and exchange a few words to get the "vibe" before going caveman on her

outtsider · 2014-09-05T16:59:39+00:00

Saw "Hi". Look her in the eyes for at least a moment and if she's still smiling then go for the kiss. Keep kissing and if she doesn't pull away then put your around around her waist. Don't go for domination type moves until you've established trust threw your make out.

danure · 2014-09-06T01:57:46+00:00

So, just banged. Went fine. Ended up braking down, spending loads on recovery, got there 2 hours late. Forgot condoms. Went to get them with her. Still banged

philosarapter · 2014-09-05T17:58:45+00:00

I'd start off with a little conversation before you go shoving your face into hers. Girls need a little verbal 'warming up' before they are ready to commit physically.

I would however steer the conversation in the direction of sex. See if you can get her thinking and talking about it.

Throwaway_d · 2014-09-05T23:10:28+00:00

I'm gonna say a big fat no. And I've had a bunch of one night stands with girls from Tinder.

Going from 0 to making out is almost always very awkward. It can be a ballsy move if there has been a lot of flirting beforehand. But that will not be the case if it's the first thing you do when you meet her in person.

What's the rush? Are you that desperate/horny?

Girls like a bit of buildup and they like to feel comfortable. So invite her in, flirt with her, start with a kiss on the cheek and build up from there. Do it in 5 minutes if you want. But some kind of escalation will make it way more smooth.

At the end of the day even if this girl is really attracted to you on Tinder, girls like a challenge. If you make it too easy for her, you could lower your value and blow it.

Title	Meeting up with a tinder girl
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Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	September 5, 2014 3:24 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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