Help! I don't have a problem approaching, I have trouble keeping the conversation going- what should you talk about in the first 5 minutes?

omarm1984 · 2014-09-07T13:54:20+00:00

Ask the girl about herself. She will give you a lot of topics to work with from just one sentence.

DiagonalHorizon · 2014-09-07T16:12:24+00:00

Try to avoid asking questions and entering interview mode. It makes the conversation impersonal. Instead, if you have a question, reframe it into a statement. Conversations should flow naturally. Actually listen to what she says, and if she says something you relate to, feel free to talk about it. It's okay to talk about yourself. Oftentimes when you chime in, something you mention she can relate to, and then it goes back and forth. Don't try to think of the smart things to say or the smart questions to ask, because then you don't pay attention to what she's actually saying. Conversations should be natural. And when you do run out of things to say, look around. I'm sure you'll find something to talk about.

Title	Help! I don't have a problem approaching, I have trouble keeping the conversation going- what should you talk about in the first 5 minutes?
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Date	September 7, 2014 1:26 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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