Any good suggestions or sources for good techniques for an approach at the gym?

RandianHero · 2014-09-10T02:38:19+00:00

Personally, I hate being that guy. When I go to the gym, I'm going there for one thing: to work out. Pretty much every woman I know goes there for the same reason (except this one girl who's just there to stare at dudes doing squats... but she's an oddball exception). You can feel free to offer assistance with their workouts and flirt with them while you're at it, but the odds are good that they've heard that shit before from a dozen other guys at the gym that week. So you're probably just going to get lost in the sea of gym rats who are trying the same bullshit.

baconophilus · 2014-09-10T15:05:10+00:00

It's a really tough scenario that I think requires a lot of tact. Personally I never do it because I'm there to lift and not worry about chicks, but here are my thoughts:

Don't do a cold approach. She will have a wall up since she's wearing yoga pants while being surrounded by testosterone-laden sweaty men. Make eye contact and smile to gauge her interest-- never be the first one to break eye contact, and if she catches you looking, don't look away. If she's not shutting you out, you can say something brief but don't just lock on and try to have a conversation right away. You need to build tension first.

If you happen to see her there regularly, keep working up (fairly quickly) your banter or whatever you're doing-- the best time to ask her out is when she's clearly taking a break or about to leave.

Title	Any good suggestions or sources for good techniques for an approach at the gym?
Author	wizzo89
Upvotes	6
Comments	3
Date	September 10, 2014 12:44 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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