Hello seddit , how are y'all feelin today ? first off , i'm going to shoot some information about me . i'm a senior high school student , i'm really tall , i wear glasses and i'm chill and really outgoing . like too much . can't help it really and i try to be as friendly as i can to people . BUT and this a huge but , it's come to the point where i'm disrepspected by my friends . cause no one respects a guy who smiles all the time .

Although , it hurts and it is kind of true , good people are shat on nowadays .

i feel like i have to change the way i treat and act around people , more stern more grounded and not too outgoing . i've been hitting the gym lately , setting more goals for myself , taking up running and reading more because respect comes from self-respect .

So self-development gurus , what do i do ? do i keep acting my natural self where i interact with everyone and everywhere smiling and laughing ? or should i be more centered , with my feet down and acting the way i look (cause i'm a big dude) ?

  • i would not know where attraction exists to a girl ? is it the funny scoial guy ? or the guy with a stiff up his ass ?