I'm looking for the new challenge: I want to pick up more girls at the gym.

mexdave · 2014-09-15T00:11:16+00:00

Don't be that guy. My experience is that most girls going to the gym are there for 1 reason, along with everyone else. Plus it usually tends to be the same people there everyday.

Don't be the guy that is there just to get with girls because you'll get that reputation quickly, and you'll ruin your gym. This is coming from a guy who goes to the gym everyday and sees the same girls and people there everyday.

RandianHero · 2014-09-15T00:13:55+00:00

Honestly? I don't like being that guy. When I go to the gym, I am going there specifically for one thing: to work out. And the vast majority of my female friends are of the same opinion. I've never met anyone who had a particularly high opinion of guys who try to pick up chicks at the gym. It's usually a pretty prominent douche flag.

If you really want to be that guy, try offering them help with weights or ask if they want to toss the medicine ball around with you. Basically, offer to help out. You can get to know people and maybe have some flirty banter with them while you're there doing your workout. Honestly, though? You're probably better off talking to them before or after the gym.

Coooont · 2014-09-15T05:58:01+00:00

As a girl, "that guy" broke public gyms for me. I lift with my personal oly bar and plates now, and run on the hiking trail. Either guys would hit on me or condescendingly "help" me off the bench. Leave me alone at the gym. Catch me leaving and let me know (as humble as possible) that you'd like to get coffee, leave your number and move on quickly. That's the most respectful and appealing approach I can think of. Keep it outside the workout.

Drewchem0786 · 2014-09-15T14:02:21+00:00

If there is a girl you like at your gym try building a casual rapport with her first and then build something for the future. I think just cold approaching women at the gym is a bad idea. Don't treat the gym like a club or meat market.

subliminalsession · 2014-09-16T03:57:33+00:00

im a girl, and i fucking hate it when guys check me out/even look at me in the gym. like, ew, i don't feel sexy at all, i'm sweaty and have no make up on and my hair looks like a stray branch, stop looking at me. also, it annoys me to see guys stood still, on the sidelines, merely SURVEYING THE GYM rather than using the equipment. me and my friends always agree they should be chucked out. what i'm trying to say is - and i appreciate i may be wrong as i don't know if i'm speaking for the majority of women here - you are not going to pick up chicks in the fucking gym.

Title	I'm looking for the new challenge: I want to pick up more girls at the gym.
Author	ddonreddit
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	September 15, 2014 12:01 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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