Help! I can't get over the possibility of Sexual Harassment

puaCurveBall · 2014-09-22T23:27:24+00:00

Stop getting black out drunk. That's it.

If you have no history of doing anything like that while sober, then you don't have to worry about it as long as you aren't drinking.

Girls aren't going to file charges for normal interactions, she filed charges because you were blackout drunk and majorly crossing the line.

lasagnaman · 2014-09-22T23:29:24+00:00

Don't get that drunk. It sounds like you know what you did was wrong, but you were too black out to see what you were doing.

RandianHero · 2014-09-23T04:13:03+00:00

Handle your shit, son. If you're going to drink, maintain a buzz. Drink a little and then meter it with water and time. Don't get blackout drunk like a jackoff.
No means no.
She filed a complaint because you acted like a dumbass while being completely shitfaced. If you don't do that, you magically won't get complaints filed against you.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-09-23T04:37:52+00:00

Everyone is jumping on you about the drinking, but I think you better take a step back and look at the frat culture of binge drinking. Maybe they are trying a little too hard to have fun, because they don't know how to have fun. Maybe these people have a bad influence on you and their environment isn't a good place for you.

vajayjay1 · 2014-09-23T04:12:26+00:00

Yea, I'd tone it down with the booze, bro. How did you expect your dick to work if you're that wasted anyway? ;)

Tundreo · 2014-09-23T12:48:17+00:00

You're talking about depression and an irrational fear. You should talk to a professional about this, not some random internet people.

circlhat · 2014-09-23T13:50:56+00:00

First don't get black out drunk, because you are responsible for your action, as you should be.

Second: Don't sleep with a black out drunk chick because she is not responsible for her action(She should be responsible)

http://www.businessinsider.com/occidental-sexual-assault-2014-9

Here is a case were a guy sleeps with a drunk girl, they are both drinking and the girl ask him for sex(With text messages). The guy is suspended, and almost he his life ruined.

I tell you this not to give you anxiety but you need to understand the culture surrounding colleges when it comes to men and women. You will always be seen as the abuser(In this case it seems like you were).

How can I get over this and start to become confident and attractive to women again?

You already know the answer to this, don't get drunk, don't sexually harass women, if she is not interested move on.

campion- · 2014-09-25T21:37:57+00:00

Don't get too down man, might be cold comfort but it could have been much, much worse. There's a reason to feel anxious, just take small steps toward getting back to being comfortable but without alcohol. Maybe stop drinking altogether, dude. My thing wasn't being to insistent with girls it was getting violent with guys. I just had to stop cold turkey cuz it's just a slippery slope.

Title	Help! I can't get over the possibility of Sexual Harassment
Author	hookupstruggles
Upvotes	7
Comments	8
Date	September 22, 2014 11:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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