It was not until yesterday when I was at a party that I realized that I have serious commitment issues with girls. I really want to be in a relationship but whenever I see a girl I think I'd potentially like to date I always pussy out of it or not pursue because I wonder how others would see it. Other times it's just because I see someone else who I will like for a week than lose the attraction.Not to say I had a bad time at the party the party was great and I socialized with a lot of girls and made many of them laugh. Please I need advice on how to get over these commitment issues because it wasn't until at that party I thought about all the times I went after a girl and actually was succeeding but just dropped it simply because of my problems with committing and focusing on 1 girl. I'm tired of that and don't want to do that anymore need advice!!

My second problem was that while I was at the party I was chillin with a hot friend of mine who has a bf. She was hammered drunk and came up to me saying HI. She hugged me and refused to let me go and made me chill with her on the couch. While on the couch for like 15 minutes she laid her entire body on me and her head on my chest and said

"my bfs not here and I'm sexually frustrated" To which I said "Well I'm sorry" Things began to escalate as she began tell me how badly she wanted me because she was extremely horny saying her pussy was wet and her bf will not fuck her I couldn't build myself up to do that to her because she had a boyfriend even though she kept saying Yyou don't know how badly I want you right now." Im curious to know was what I did good? The fact that even though she was wanting me to fuck her I refused? Would any or all of you do the same out of courtesy? Just curious to know

Please respond to my problem/questions! Thanks