Long Time Lurker - Goes from Pussy to Predator

*Warning: This is a long one, but I'll make it entertaining and educational yuh dickheads.* 

Preface: As the title says I have lurked this sub for quite some time time picking up tips and putting them into action, fine tuning and learning from my many many mistakes in the past. I'm not bad with women, but I hardly ever make the effort to go out, I would blame it on being busy, but really that was another lame excuse.

I grew, I learned, I got more and more comfortable in my own skin and had more and more success. I also must credit /r/keto for about 40 pounds of weight loss and /r/nofap for helping me stop wasting all this raw sexual energy on pixels and pipe dreams and /r/malefashionadvice for stepping up my fashion game. Anyways I digress, I have had many success stories and triumphs in this game and countless failures and down right sad stories. But much of my personal growth is thanks to Seddit.

The story I am about to tell you is an accomplishment that made me feel so fucking amazing. Getting this girl, the rush from it makes me feel like I can eat the God Damn Sun spit it out and ask for more. In this particular instance, I took the sum of what I learned here and used it like a cold calculated machine with such precision, I was a muthah-effin Predator and I'd like to share my experience with you all. Buckle up Bitches, those who aren't patient enough to read can move on.

(PREFACE TLDR: I used Reddit to hack my life and grow as a person)

Background: To give you a little background on myself, I was a complete idiot when it came to the seduction game. Friend-zoned more times than I can count. I prided myself on being the shoulder to cry on. I was your typical white knight who thought being the nice guy was what would get me the girl. Because as we all know, that's what every girl wants, the Nice Guy (UGH). So I went through high school and college being completely lonely watching all these assholes get the women I wanted so badly. Things spiraled out of control, it turned into weight gain and self confidence issues. In my head women didn't want me, would never want me.

This paragraph goes out to you "typical" nice guys out there. I understand your frustration when it comes to learning about seduction. I pride myself still on being a fine upstanding young man, who people see as a great example. I am the guy women try to set up with their daughters and granddaughters. I am that guy that people say is marriage material. I am loved by many people, but you know what? That doesn't attract women, at least not initially. I was frustrated reading things about treating her like an asshole, like she doesn't matter, I thought that wasn't me. I was a Hopeless Romantic. Well that didn't work out too often, so I tried Seddits advice. And you know what? I found a balance. I wasn't becoming someone who wasn't me, I was just becoming someone who was a smarter version of myself. I don't hate women, I'm still a nice guy, but I am doing them a favor by influencing them to want me, because I am fucking awesome and this is the best way to make them realize that fact: Not to say it, not to just do it, TO LIVE IT. Remember you haven't changed and you are doing them a favor, because you are better than the other guy. He's just an asshole, you on the other hand are something that anatomically speaking is impossible, you're an asshole with a huge heart. Moving On.

(BG TLDR: I was a typical White Knight, I sucked at Seduction)

Introduction: Now let's set up the scene, I work as a head bartender in a local live music venue, I've worked there longer than any other employee and am extremely comfortable and at home in this environment. This obviously is a big help in my game, but I find women that are easy a huge turnoff and almost never pursue them in such a way.

This girl is brand new to the industry, eager to learn and a hard worker. She is an HB9 easily, people constantly flirt with her, give her their numbers, buy her drinks after work, you know the type. I honestly didn't take much notice at first, she was another random hotty, we go through a lot in this industry. But as I trained her and spoke with her, I found she had a head on her shoulders and wasn't your typical just hot girl, there was something more. I recall one night a fellow coworker of mine jokingly said the following after she had left: "And the award for Hottest Employee to ever work at RANDOM BAR goes to HB9!" We all agreed and that combined with her being smart and just drop dead gorgeous made me decide to give it a shot. Not in your typical I want her to be my girlfriend way, no I just wanted to try my skill set on her and see where it goes. It is worth it to know that she has a boyfriend and is in a "Committed Long Distance Relationship." Chyeah.

(Intro TLDR: HB9 starts working with me and I decide to have some fun with what I've learned from Seddit)

So the Game Begins: After deciding this, I knew I had to interact with her beyond pouring her drinks and teaching her things about the job. The perfect opportunity presented itself rather quickly. I had to work a day I normally had off, in fact it is the one day I have off between my two jobs. I worked because one of my fellow coworkers was getting married that day, so I pulled the early shift. The Wedding reception was scheduled immediately after my shift at our Bar, so I brought a change of clothes to make a quick change after my shift so I could hang out and enjoy the company of my friends, I knew she was supposed to work that night, so I knew I had to do some Peacocking.

Peacocking is invaluable, not just in a fashion sense, you are there to be seen, you are there to show off yourself, you are there to have fun and you have to own it. So let me tell you how I walked in, knowing that she was there and was watching. I quietly slink away, finish my side work and change in the back, and then I make my entry. The newlywed Bride is on the dancefloor having a good ol' time (A little Background, she had a thing for me, but she has a kid and was planning her wedding, so yeah, big fucking NOPE on that one, she was hot and cool, but NOPE NOPE NOPE) Anyways, I jump in, screaming "I'm Off Finally! I get to party with you all!" I go to the dance floor, dance with the Bride having a good ol' time and give a huge kiss on her cheek and she embraces me with a big hug. At this point everyone notices and is excited to have me join the party, because really at this point, not to put down the wedding party or anything, I am the party. I make the rounds, talking to everyone, meeting new people, having a good old time on my own. There is a noticeable change in things as I am the only guy who is having a good time, I'm the only one dancing, I'm the only one meeting new people, I am having a great time and then she gets off her shift. Aww yeah!

I talk with her here and there, but I don't make her the center of my night, I don't follow her around like a little puppy. I outright ignore her sometimes. If a song comes on that I want to dance to, I don't say a thing I just go to the dance floor, if someone offers me a shot I take it, I talk with everyone and occasionally talk with her. Come to find out we have a lot in common, cool, this girl is pretty awesome, but I'm still at this point giving zero fucks because it was just fun for me.

She claimed she doesn't usually dance unless she's really drunk, so I say cool and leave her behind to go dance by myself whenever a song hit me right. Of course you all know what happened. She ended up dancing with me the rest of the night, and not just your junior high prom awkward dancing. I used the opportunity to initiate kino. I caressed her, I held her by the small of her back, when I would speak to her I would run my hand up her arm to behind her ear and whisper in it.

As the night winds down she gets a phone call from you guessed it, Her Boyfriend and she leaves me to my own elements. She's on the phone for a long time and everything is winding down, all my friends are leaving and going home. So what did I do? Well I used Uber because I had been drinking and I was about to peace the heck out of there. I was bored, time to do something else, and do it in a safe way kids. Uber and Lyft are awesome use them!

I wasn't even going to give her a goodbye wave and as I get into the car, she runs down and asks me what's going on. I tell her I'm bored and I am heading home. She wants to go with me. OK well my home is not that private so I suggest we take her to her house and we hang out there until we sober up and we can later pick up our cars. She agrees. So we take Uber to her house and chill for a while. We talk, I'm very comfortable, I'm fun, I'm the fucking man still. In walks her Dad astonished to see his daughter (her car was gone) and some random dude. I initiate Nice Guy protocol and formally introduce myself and explain the situation of not wanting his daughter to drive home because we had been drinking, goes better than expected, we are able to be alone the rest of the night in her room and we end up getting a ride back in the am and part ways with big smiles on our faces.

Fast Forward - I don't initiate text game, I leave her be. One thing I noticed was that her boyfriend constantly checked in on her, both texting and talking. She was clearly frustrated by that, so I give her room and time. Eventually a previous conversation about going to another town and bar hoping comes to fruition, she invites me and I initially say I'll think about it, but of course end up going.

I go to pick her up, leaving my car at her house and getting a ride from Uber once again so we could hitch a ride back later and not have to worry about drinking and driving. I get there and she is getting ready, she asks me if it's OK if her sister comes along and I say sure, why not another cool person to meet. So as they girls get ready, I sit there with her Dad bullshitting and watching the world series, I'm not a huge sports fan but as a bartender I can sure BS my way into having others think I am, and this worked out well for me. Her Dad and I hit it off, the dude likes me. Now I wanted the sister on my side too.

We go to the bar and I outright ignore HB9 and talk with her sister an HB7, oddly enough I find common ground with her and hit it off with her too and almost immediately, I got the feeling HB9 was at times guiding the conversation knowing certain things about me that her sister would like, as if she wanted her approval too. Good sign. HB7 Sister of course loves me, cha ching, she's on my side now too. We all end up having fun, talking and bar hopping together.

We end up meeting up with some desperate nice guys who want both of them. They all have known one another for a long time and it didn't phase me one bit, I was kind, funny and awesome to them too, after all they were no challenge at all.

So we sit there at a table together, and you know how awkward conversation can be if you are the odd man odd, so I take control and ask them if they have ever played the ABC's of Sex game. A game where everyone around the table starting with the letter "A" must say something related to sex, if they can't think of something in a certain time, they have to take a drink and we move onto the next letter. Not only was this a good ice breaker to have a little fun, it is an easy way to escalate the conversation to sex. We go for quite a few rounds, all the while I sit there with open and confident body language, my legs open, touching hers. I use kino when possible and the evening progresses.

People go to the restroom, get drinks, do whatever and it ends up being just her and I, so what do we do? We continue the game. I really couldn't have planned it better, now it was her and I and the topic of sex was at the forefront, this one on one interaction was a great forum for more intimate kino. On "S" I would whisper words like Stroke while stroking her face, I can't remember them all, but all the escalation and increased kino were being accepted.

As the night winds down, we head back home and I end up staying the night in her bed. Now many of you sedditors will be mad at me for this one, but nothing happened at this point. We cuddle and enjoy one another's company that is it. I wake up early after finding myself in the bed alone, apparently she went to go talk to her boyfriend and fell asleep outside. I do the courtesy of making the bed and go home. I don't text her She texts me later to apologize for leaving me alone, I say it's cool that she can make it up to me later.

My Favorite Part - The K-Close: So a few more times interacting and having random adventures ensues, one night we sneak into a hotel and from the top floor toss coins into a fountain about 10 floors below making wishes. We mess with each other and argue whose made it, this is a random tidbit that is important for the K-Close story.

Fast Forward to a slow night at work, I say we should hang out before she leaves for a three week trip to a family wedding. She agrees and we plan to hang out at her house after work. It is slow enough that they cut her, and she is ready to wait for me at the bar, I tell her no, I tell her to grab some six packs of beer and I will meet her at her house. I get off a few hours later and we watch a movie together on her bed, I pay attention to her body language and she keeps moving closer, and is very comfortable with touching. Cool, I decide I'm going to make the move, but how? I formulate a plan.

Truth be told, I did really make a wish that night, and that wish really was to just simply kiss her. So in her bed I bring back the subject of the wish, and I tell her I know how I can prove the coin we found in the fountain was mine. I say logically speaking, if my wish comes true, then that had to be my coin right? She asks me what my wish was, and with body language and my eyes, I tell her it's a kiss and she knows it.

I can tell she is conflicted because of the whole boyfriend thing, so I ask her how she feels about "this" situation. Fellow men, I had no intention of listening to a word she said. At first she couldn't articulate anything, but then as she sounded like she was formulating a sentence, I rolled over and in a strong, yet quiet voice simply said "Shut Up" and I kissed her, I kissed the shit out of her, I kissed like a man. We both wanted it so bad and we loved every minute of it. And that's what made me feel like I could eat the fucking sun, that's when I realized this stuff works, and I wanted to share it with someone, anyone and who better than all of you.

(TLDR: I'm Batman)