I've been looking into seduction for the past while and have learned a lot as well as improved on inner game quite a bit. Although the biggest obstacle in my way that i have noticed is that I'm too self conscious. I constantly worry about what others think of me and and this severely get in my way of approaching and escalating with girls. I always try to remind myself that others are worried more about themselves than about me, but unconsciously I still resist approaching and pulling moves. This has also led me to be needy and desperate, always following around my friends at parties and never really being able to have my own fun. Any tips on working on fixing this attitude?