Well guys, this is my first ever post in here because I just found this subreddit and I really feel I need to share this. I think I'm onto something in here. How many of you have approched, got the number, the conversation went on smoothly and stuff, but then you never got plans or anything done with that person? Well, I think I found a solution. I discussed time ago that getting plans arranged before getting the number was a helper so now you have this contact on your phone actually waiting for something.

I approached, easily, asking for a cigar. After approaching, getting a good intro done and talking for around 40 minutes or so, I proposed that we could go to play tennis or something, you know getting creative and something different, besides she plays it regularly. Here's the thing. After proposing such plans, I didn't ask for the number, but instead made eye contact, stay there, stay there, and here it comes, she asks for it, and both exchange phone numbers.

Flawless system, the worst case scenario, if she's not interested she just would say something like "yeah that'd be cool" and that's gonna be all about it, she won't ask for the phone number or for you to have it, and you will have space on your contacts list for someone else.