So on Saturday night, I wasn't planning on going out because I had a lot of work to do but I decided to call it quits at midnight. Right around then, my roommate, his gf (A), and her roommate (B), and her friend (C who's a girl) show up. I'm very interested in B. She recently broke up with my friend (we're not super close) about 2 maybe 3 weeks ago. She mentioned they were about to go dancing at the bar. She asks/tells me "You're coming right?" (figured that was a good sign) and I didn't have any reason to say no so I said why not.
To precede some of this, I invited this same group (my roommate and the 3 girls) to a party the day before and we had a great time. I had a lot of kino, banter, and eye contact with the B and C the whole night. We had a small car and B and C had to ride in my lap on two separate trips that night (not sure if that's important). So we get back after having a great time. Then while we're trying to organize some rides home, B's ex-bf (my friend) shows up unbeknownst to anybody drunk looking for a ride home. He get's pissy because C is looking at him funny, flips the hell out and cusses B and C out and storms out continuing to cus B out over phone. It was a mess and killed the night and pissed everyone off.
Anyway... I didn't affect me so I didn't think much of it. Back to Saturday night... We pregame before the bar. Having fun listening to music and what. Great atmosphere. C's boyfriend shows up who B wasn't happy with at the time. B mentions she is really looking forward to dance to get her mind off her ex and C's bf. He makes C leave with him instead of coming with us to the bar. Didn't bother me since I still had B with us.
Once we get the bar, we head to the dance floor. I'll cut the chase here, we dance for like 3 and a half hours. Like 1-3:30 including daylight savings. Lots of strong eye contacts, grinding, face to face dancing, smiling, obviously kino all over the place. I swap with my roommate to dance with A for a bit here and there to mix it up. Just having a wonderful time. Even the few times and I went to the bathroom to find B dancing with someone else, she saw me and kinda ditched the dude she was with to start dancing with me.
When closing was coming up, I see my roommate kissing A and that prompts me to kiss B. I wait til the end of a song and go in for it and she turns away. To be fair, I was pretty drunk and probably wasn't the smoothest going in for it. But it just seems odd to have such a great connection for most of the night to have it end like that. Was it just poor timing because of her problems with her other guys at the time?
I got B and C's numbers the night before all this and had been thinking about texting B that I had fun Saturday and we should do it again sometime. I've been iffy on if I should continue pursuing C because she has a boyfriend, yet she seemed at the very least to enjoy my company if not be attracted to me. I don't know the PUA code of ethics.
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