Hello sedditors,its my first post here but i have been a lurker for a while. my problem is that i cant be fun when i first meet people,i be a very serious person and just talk about serious stuff,and if i am in a group i just listen and laugh and my mind is like a blank that cant say a word.

I just started working at a gym becuase i want to improve social skills and meet new people,but i just cant have fun with the people here,if we sit all together every body says fun stuff but me.

So i wanna know how to fix that,and if anyone has any advice about anything related to that i would be greatful.