How to deal with romantic introvert type of girl? +[FR]

Abuk007 · 2014-11-26T13:28:54+00:00

You are thinking too much about. Take it day by day and enjoy it. If you think about games and tricks it will appear forced and she will get a feeling that you are off because you aren't being genuine. If you are looking for quick flings then skip the girl?

sakurafice · 2014-11-26T13:59:07+00:00

Dude, why are you using "tricks" and game shit if she already likes you? Do things naturally and what you feel in the moment.

Also, the girl you're dating is HELLA insecure. You already know that, but if you're stuck on this one girl, expect this to go slowly.
In the meantime i suggest you find other dates to fill in your time and get more experience with people who aren't her.

Abuk007 · 2014-11-26T14:48:12+00:00

I believe she is the investor, idealist and denier type from Vin DiCarlo's Pandora's Box system. But if she already likes you, she WILL make you her boyfriend. Believe me. She will find something to fix about you, and be with you as long as that thing is not fixed. Please don't break her heart, sleep with her only to land a new girl. That will destroy her self esteem. You should leave every girl better than you have found her.

On the other hand, when she says "no" to any sexual escalation; she means "Not yet, slowly, not here". Persistence is key. Never ever try anything in public or near her roommates. She doesn't want to be perceived as "a slut", as our social conditioning teaches us. You slowly escalate. One kiss here, one neck kiss there, one naughty remark here, then comes the "Second base", sexual touching and when she sleeps with you , you make it like it "just happened", don't force her.

Unlike a justifier (girls with tattoos, piercings, family and childhood issues) she doesn't get turned off by seuxal talk only to sleep with you the moment you are alone. You can slowly talk sexual topics, slowly escalate kino but it will be slower than it would with a justifier girl found at a club. Remember: she will put the ring on you the day after you sleep with her, and be confused as to why you won't return her texts and meet her again. It is very easy to get a lot of bad karma here.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-11-26T15:14:17+00:00

You're not going to get friendzoned. You've made your intentions well known, and if she just wants to be friends she's not making it very clear.

You did great with all the kino-ing and taking 2 steps forward and 1 step back as far escalating goes, I just think she's not super comfortable around you yet. So just take it slow, or find more girls if you don't want to wait.

jacks_not_surprised · 2014-11-26T13:28:52+00:00

You didn't lose your one chance to escalate, bcs there are so many chances.

I remember in a video RSD Julien and RSD Max saying that you go for the kiss, she rejects it, it's fine don't sweat it. Talk some more, the go for the kiss again.

Julien said with one specific girl he tried 18 FUCKING TIMES before she didn't refuse him.

Title	How to deal with romantic introvert type of girl? +[FR]
Author	Abuk007
Upvotes	17
Comments	12
Date	November 26, 2014 12:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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