I haven't been out in months so I was a bit nervous when my mates asked me to go the club but I've been lurking in seddit and I wanted to try out what I learned.

I insisted we reached early; this is very important. Why? It allows you and your friends to find the best spot and claim it. Game is important but don't underestimate the importance of a comfortable, convenient vantage point. Coming early also allowed me to build rapport with the bar tender and other patrons before the place got too loud

My mindset going in was to have fun and it made a huge difference. Instead of me looking around and trying to find a girl like i'm some type of predator my time was spent having fun.

Half way through the night I made eye contact with a cute girl. We started grinding and after about 20 minutes I decided to try and make something out of it. Told her to come to a more quiet section of the club, she followed me but as soon as we reached she turned and walked away.

I almost gave a fuck

Moved on, found another (more attractive HB8) girl. Repeated the same procedure but she was way more receptive. We started talking, I have no idea what was said and I didn't care to say anything witty or funny. Best part is, the girl that blew me off early started orbiting around and tried to get me interested in her again. Homegirl straight-up started grinding on me, I actually had to take a step back. HB8 started laughing at the situation, and we got back to talking.

Ended up with a number close, and a really fun night. Thanks seddit, I never would have had the confidence to try and talk to a girl in the middle of a noisy club if it wasn't for this sub. Let alone after I just got rejected. You guys are a great support group. I'll continue posting Field reports (even if no one but me sees them)