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| 7 | Scientists say there's one quality in men that women find even more attractive than good looks: selflessness.The title just says "more than good looks", nothing about selflessness being the quality they are MOST attracted to. | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Where’s The Art In Pick Up Artistry?That's an interesting way to put it. I was talking to a friend who has a mentor in game. We were discussing why my style and his mentor's style are so different yet we both get results. To put it simply, it's just a perception of reality. His mentor sees women as "another piece of meat" and thus doesn't emotionally invest in any girl (non needy). I see women as "just another girl" and my purpose is always first so I don't emotionally invest in any girl (non needy). Same principles, different fra… | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Girl I made out with yesterday night didn't accept my friend request. What do I do?You should go to her house and demand that she accepts your friend request. Or you know, move on because she clearly doesn't give a shit. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 05:53 PM |
| 2 | RSD Julien Infield Compiletion - Julien Blanc's Game Revealed From Strat to Finish.Strats sound so much better though. Teles can be a little bright. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | RSD Julien Infield Compiletion - Julien Blanc's Game Revealed From Strat to Finish.Thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 10:34 AM |
| 3 | Rejected by a girl but want to remain friends?I recommend two steps back. Just treat her like you'd treat an acquaintance or a regular friend. Don't need to avoid her. Basically look over her or just be cordial and socially polite. And more importantly go and meet other girls. | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 09:59 AM |
| 2 | "Are you fucking other women?"-----Shit Test!Do give an update whether she does come back to you. The whole point of shit tests is that when you pass them, the girl becomes more attracted. If she doesn't come back to you after a few weeks, it means you failed the shit test no matter what you think about your response. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 10:50 AM |
| 1 | "You don't know me, bro!" - Maintaining Frame (FR)The important question then is, did you lay the girl you were talking to? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 09:16 PM |
| 1 | The (Dating) Market Doesn’t CareI agree. That said, few guys who don't come from a place of negativity ever start their journey. Of the guys I meet who really want to improve their lives, it always comes from a place of pain and sometimes bordering negativity. People who are positive and happy all the time rarely ever get things done. I just don't like to use the word never, and I don't like painting absolute pictures. Maybe it's good to write feel good motivational stuff, but we all know that all this feel good mambo jumbo ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 09:22 PM |
| 12 | Dread game > friend zone [FR]Had sex with two virgins on separate occasions. They weren't religious though. Just not exposed to many guys. Kept coming back for more for quite some time. Maybe it's just me but if I were in your shoes I'd either fuck her and keep her around or just really next her. Unless she's really fun to hang out around which, based on your description, I highly doubt that. I don't believe that girl is a virgin means she isn't comfortable with sex. Sometimes they just haven't had the chance to meet a guy … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers, Part IIA man of low value can not compliment a girl and she will still know he is low value. A man of value can compliment a girl and it won't take away his value. How she takes what you say is backed by how you say it. "You're pretty;coffee date" is the close. When you're asking her out there's no need to beat around the bush. Assuming you've build sufficient comfort and rapport, and underlay your approach with enough sexual subcommunication, she will know why you are there talking to her. Of course y… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers, Part IIValid point. For example? What would be a good way to do it? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersWhich is why it's all about subcommunication. Or "you know that I know that you know that I'm not talking about your jewelry". The more savvy girls know this and can play along. The less savvy girls you have to spell it out. Bottom line is: girls aren't men with boobs. Don't expect them to communicate logically like men. "Oh I like x so let's talk about x." And to answer your last question: no it's not lower value. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers, Part IIThis is exactly why I didn't want to write an example. Once I get my hands on a camera and microphone I'd put out a video. It's stupid to say "no complimenting at all" because it's not what you do but how you do it. I'm sorry, but it sounds way too messed up. What's so "BP" about complimenting someone if you hold frame and do it in a value exchanging manner? Like "hey I like you, but it doesn't mean I'm needy for your validation." | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers, Part IIYou're welcome. That's what I always say. Looks matter, money matters, but those things alone won't get you girls. Coupled with "knowing what you're doing" (aka game) it is unstoppable. However guys like me aren't that lucky. Not impossible, but we have to work extra hard and attract her with charisma alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers, Part IIThat's when she decides yes, no, or maybe. I personally know friends who are attracted to guys who are not their type on the physical aspect (too short), but once the guy opens their golden mouthpiece, they are intrigued by that. Not enough to be a yes girl, but he has to run game. If you are her type physically, there's no need to really game. Just don't do anything stupid and she will comply all the way to the bedroom. However most guys don't have that looks advantage, that's where being able … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersIt was just a rough gauge. But let's say 3000 over 3 years, that's about 3 girls a day? It;s quite possible where I'm from. Maybe you're right, but definitely more than a few hundreds. I'll edit it if it bothers you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersI claimed it. Whether you believe me or not doesn't matter. I respect a critical mind. Take what works for you, discard what doesn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How to create an interesting conversation out of nothing?There's a few things you can do. Just learn to enjoy inane conversations. Go out, practice being pointlessly social. I hate it too at times, but I see it as necessary to establish comfort with some people. Do what the guys over at "Humans of NY" do. Walk up to someone, try to get them to tell you their story. Listen. Ask them about their greatest fears, what excites them, what is the most memorable moment in their life, etc. Prepare to get weird stares a lot. Remain on reddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersThen I guess I agree with you. But what I mean by a yes girl is a girl who happens to fancy your type, is in the right point of her life to meet someone, and offers no resistance at all, and is generally logistically and emotionally settled to let you into her life. Any sort of hesitation or resistance (having to do the dance for a bit) I classify as "maybe" girl, just maybe on the higher or lower end of the spectrum. Still I think we're on the same train of thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersI like this one. Might try it just for kicks if I feel like just goofing around. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersI think it's just semantics. Nothing to worry about if you understand what is socially calibrated and what isn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 01:04 PM |
| 6 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersWell, as some people have mentioned, any line works if 1. the girl is a yes girl, or, and I add, 2. you have a good vibe. Of course I don't run around calling girls giraffes. I agree only idiots do that. But occasionally you hit a good spot and it can be a good tease. I'm not presenting it as THE MAGIC PILL: STEP ONE CALL THEM GIRAFFES... Hope it clears things up. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 01:02 PM |
| 8 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersSure thing. I replied a PM earlier with this. An indirect opener, in my definition, would be something that takes something about her visually (preferably something that she has intentionally chosen--jewelry, fashion, etc) and commenting on it. Adding a playful tease (not an insult) would be a plus. For example: "Hi, you just walked by me and for some reason I can't stop looking at your strange fashion. I love it. The ostentatious tribal necklace, looks like something you bought from a flea mark… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersI would say that if a woman likes you, any strategy works. But for those who are like "wait let's see what he's got." if you don't play it right, she'll screen you out faster than you can say "wait, one more thi-..." | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersHey if it works for you, it works for you. I'm just some dude on the internet. lol | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersYes it is. But that term seems to leave a sour taste in people's mouths for some reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersTrue. Generally I try to make it come across as though I'm joking. Not to be mean. Some girls take it well. I'll leave a huge pause between the cute and the tease, I've gotten good hooks with it (playful indignation). The worst response is that the girl doesn't hear it. No one has taken offense. Maybe cuz I only use it when I'm in a playful mood. If I feel I don't have a good vibe, I'll stick to safer openers like the fashion one. "...strange but I love it..." | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersLove this. Might use it if I'm in a good vibe that day. Can't see myself pulling it off congruently if I feel like shit. Lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 10:47 PM |
| 7 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersThis, I cannot agree with. Realistically speaking, there are girls who are just uninterested or unavailable. They may be polite or just plain sociable. The both of you can be enjoying yourselves, but if she's unavailable, she's unavailable. To me it is important to filter out "no" girls quickly. It's hard enough turning a "maybe" into a "yes". I'm not saying it's impossible, but to me, it's not worth my time. My distinction between "maybe" and "yes" girls is that, you don't have to game yes girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersI think there might be some misunderstanding. One of the points I was trying to get across is how newbies use (or, rather, misuse) direct game which causes them to learn how to actually be normal. I'm not saying direct game doesn't work. I've used it myself and it works great when I'm in state and have a good general vibe. That's why the article is titled newbie trap. For intermediate guys, once you got a good solid foundation and know how to be normal, anything works, really. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersGood point and exactly what I mentioned in the article. You don't have to game "yes" and "no" girls, but the real game is played with "maybe" girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 10:36 PM |
| 9 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersYeah I agree with the first statement. I'm actually writing this article for newbies. Direct game works most definitely. But it's the way a lot of new guys, who probably have less than a couple of hundred approaches under their belt, think that it's like the magic pill superpower type of opener. And they neglect the actual part of game where you have to be normal, cool, and fun. I've watched many guys run around like monkeys. It's embarrassing. You're right about the 10% and screening part. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 05:14 PM |
| 24 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersThanks for the feedback. Appreciate it. Yeah I'll try to write more along those lines. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 05:09 PM |
| 32 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersGood question. My framework for an opener is usually to use something about her to open. For example, she's tall, skinny, and has long legs. "Hi, I've to go in a minute but I saw you and I just wanted to tell you that you look like a really adorable giraffe." It's direct but it's softened with the tease, rather than leaving it hanging there after "adorable". "Hi...your fashion sense is really strange. Very rebellious with those spiked boots. I love it. Kinda reminds me of...(assumption stack)...… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers - The Social LifestyleGreat ideas come from great discussion. Would love to hear your point of view as well. | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 03:15 PM |
| 1 | The Hardest Part Of The Journey To WinningHaha good point. The 10,000 hour rule doesn't mean as though you will suck and not accomplish anything for the first 10,000 hours then after you hit the mark suddenly BAM you become successful. Along the 10,000 hours one does hit multiple short term, medium term, and long term goals, and these keep evolving over time as well. But I edited for clarity's sake. Thanks for pointing it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 10:41 AM |
| 1 | The Hardest Part Of The Journey To WinningGood enough is not good enough. In The One Thing the author states that the focus question you should ask yourself if you're stuck is "What is the one thing I need to achieve so that everything else becomes easier or unnecessary?" Once you find the one thing, then you plot your one thing you need to do to get there, one thing you need to do in five years so that you get there, one thing you need to do in one year so that you accomplish your five-year goal so that you get there, ...one month..., … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 10:37 AM |
| 1 | The Art Of BraggingOverconfidence which is backed by cheeky playfulness and not taking your "bragging" seriously, then yes. But most newbies, brag for the sake of bragging to "show off" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 02:32 PM |
| 1 | The Art Of BraggingExactly. The key is to "bait" her into asking you without seeming too obvious about it. You're one of the few who understood the article. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The Art Of BraggingAll the comments make good points. But you all didn't take into consideration social standing. Like I said, your likability and social value relative to others within the group/setting affects how your arrogance is perceived. If the girl is a No girl to you or you aren't well liked or have any influence in the group, then arrogance will harm instead of help. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The position of FUCK YOU!Did you watch the movie though? At the end, with absolutely no money, he still got into a position of fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 04:29 PM |
| 2 | You're Never Safe from a Shit TestYeah. Shit testing is done by girls to test your mettle. Seems to me based on your description she's just a straight up asshole. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I designed a shirt which, according to a research study, makes women think men are 12% more attractiveI took a look at the proposed t-shirts. I think the top of the T is supposed to span the chest to emphasize it, not so much the shoulders. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 04:32 PM |
| 1 | 3 Phrases You Must Eliminate From Your LifeYou're right. I'd admit that. Yet academia has no room for intangible, unquantifiable 'concepts' such as "motivation", "intention", or "thoughts". Does not make them any less valid. The point is only as useful as you'd want to apply it to your life and if it's hogwash, then discard the unnecessary. I appreciate your criticism and skepticism of its validity. But mere assertion without backing your claim up is equally ironic to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 04:48 PM |
| 1 | 3 Phrases You Must Eliminate From Your LifeIt was a good read. Thanks for the share. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The One Reason Why You Struggle To Fulfill Your ResolutionThanks. Really appreciate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 12:53 PM |
| 1 | The One Reason Why You Struggle To Fulfill Your ResolutionGlad to hear that. All the best for 2015 as well. Keep hustling. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 12:53 PM |
| 3 | The One Reason Why You Struggle To Fulfill Your ResolutionSure, anyway whether or not weak people make resolutions, it doesn't take away from the main point of the article: that necessity is a stronger motivator than merely choosing to do something because it'd be a nice addition to your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 09:33 PM |
| 7 | The One Reason Why You Struggle To Fulfill Your ResolutionI don't disagree with you, but your reasoning is circular. "Resolutions are for weakminded people because only weakminded people make resolutions." Just pointing it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on creating a sort of Mystery Method, Ross Jeffries NLP hybrid?NLP and MM were the first two generations of game. They were the pioneers and their methods reflected game in its infancy. As game evolved, most of us realized that self-development and natural game worked better. Enter RSD and the third-generation of game. Right now I feel that we're once again evolving into the fourth generation (The Red Pill). Guys like Krauser and RSDTyler are exploring the frontiers of this new style of game. While it may be to look back at older methods and learning from i… | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good.Are you serious? After OPs move she would probably blow him off instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 01:09 PM |
| 5 | Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good.she was already his plate since he had a fuckbuddy. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good.I couldn't have done it better. Lol. Well played. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 01:06 PM |
| -2 | Girl with boyfriend is going on trip around the world with random guy she just met. Don't worry though, "This is totally sort of like as friends".As much as I lol'd after reading this I still think nothing will happen between them. She'll get the attention, he'll get the smiles but blue balls. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Establish Your Frame of Your Reality to be Amazing with WomenGood question. Maybe I'll write about it soon (was searching through my blog and realized I didn't have anything on the topic). Assumption stacks are simply using visual cues about her (they can be superficial) and making an assumption about her (you don't have to be right) then stacking with an elaboration. For example a girl who wears a sun dress and wears shades would most likely be an artsy person. You can merge it with your opener by saying something like, "I couldn't help but notice you. Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Establish Your Frame of Your Reality to be Amazing with WomenBut it also depends on the the violation valance of said quirk, imo. If it's too far out, people will tend to perceive it as a bad thing and it will hurt your game. You can "keep" the quirks in private, but a certain level of putting on pretenses is required out in the real world. As much as people try to act like they accept everyone (liberals, especially), no one is perfectly accommodating (liberals, especially). | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 10:59 AM |
| 1 | My first approach ever! Am I headed in the right direction?This is debatable. While there are benefits to these type of outrageous approaches, the downside is also incredible. That being said, great job. But if you want serious growth, you need to put in serious effort. I used to do a lot of ridiculous openers when I was younger, but I realized after a while that didn't help me with sharpening my game. It only made me more daring, which is a good thing to an extent. Everything you do has to have a reason. Don't just wing it. | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 05:22 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Finally went to the club, great results"I almost gave a fuck." Hilarious. Gonna steal that for my mental joke book. Anyway with regards to your post. Well done. | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Keep TRP to yourselfWhat is "using red pill"? And why does it matter? Girls I've dated know that I game and they seem ok with it. Rarely ever comes up as a problem and even so it's fairly easy to ease them into forgetting about it again. They are generally supportive. That said, I don't just go around and announce that I read red pill philosophy or talk about it with just about anyone. It's all about how you bring it up and when you bring it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Psychological Projection: How We Delude OurselvesPoint taken. I probably won't edit this article but I will write more concise list-like articles in the future. Much appreciated. I have actually noticed my "5 things xxxx" articles do get more hits as well | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 03:50 PM |
| 1 | RSD founder Tyler's comment on the issueAs Tyler said in one of his videos. There's no point in angering the mob. They'll just durrr in front of your house with torches and pitchforks. At some point you just gotta let them be what they wanna be. He has a business to run after all. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 07:52 PM |
| 2 | The Quintessential Date GuideI think Krauser was spot on when he said that "the progression of red pill knowledge owes a huge debt to the orginal PUAs it has become fashionable to discredit." I find a lot of guys in the community tend to jump on the MM hate bandwagon without realizing that there wouldn't be a community if the pioneers hadn't got off their asses and went out to approach women. There is some degree of truth in concepts like "peacocking" or "negging" but it doesn't mean that everyone should wear a furry top ha… | /r/trpGAME | 31/10/14 08:45 PM |
| 2 | The Quintessential Date GuideHaha. It depends on your style. Like the article said, if you usually do it, then do it. If not, don't. | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 05:34 AM |
| 1 | 5 Reasons You Should Daygame AloneI guess you should have a balance of both with and without wings. Having wingmen can help you but to a point. Just as going solo does as well. I approach 2-sets solo and with wings, both force different areas of growth. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 02:31 AM |
| 1 | 5 Reasons You Should Daygame AloneI guess you should have a balance of both with and without wings. Having wingmen can help you but to a point. Just as going solo does as well. | /r/trpGAME | 23/10/14 02:30 AM |
| 0 | 5 characteristics of good company. Who you should surround yourself with.Well that's true. As they say, no matter what you do there will always be haters. I don't expect to please everyone. What article about maintaining frame? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 10:18 AM |
| 1 | 5 characteristics of good company. Who you should surround yourself with.I would agree that the content isn't on par with RoK. But to dismiss something as worthless makes you exactly the type of person I probably wouldn't want to be around with. No constructive criticism just a whole bunch of negative energy and nothing to contribute to anything at all. At least the "worthless" article does help some people, what does your comment do but ride off the value of people who actually write good articles (e.g., RoK and Heartiste). Preaching the word of good writers but say… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/14 06:25 AM |
| 5 | How Losing Your Phone Is A Good Thing For Your Game."Texting a girl at all is devaluing your most valuable asset — your attention" That's powerful man. Never though of it that way. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/14 07:08 AM |
| 1 | How Losing Your Phone Is A Good Thing For Your Game.Yeah technology is important no doubt about that. Social media is important. But the extent to which it consumes most people's lives usually goes unnoticed. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I get along with talkative women because I am quiet. How about when we are both quiet? Any tips?As the man you have to lead, unfortunately. Either that or just choose not to be with "quiet" women (but I highly doubt they exist). I've never met a woman who, once becoming comfortable, cannot shut the fuck up. | /r/seduction | 03/07/14 06:33 PM |
| 1 | In Defense Of Singlehood: Avoid The Relationship Trap In Your TwentiesBut who knows what the future brings. Generally most men are able to reach their potential in their mid-30s if they work at it, but most men fall off the wagon before they get there. How would you know a baseball player has reached his peak at 19? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 08:25 PM |
| 3 | In Defense Of Singlehood: Avoid The Relationship Trap In Your TwentiesI'm not sure if you disagree or agree but you do make good points. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 03:59 PM |
| 1 | In Defense Of Singlehood: Avoid The Relationship Trap In Your TwentiesYou can either call her out on it. But what what you did was great. By ignoring it and forcing her to take the test, she will still invest in the conversation. Totally fine. | /r/trpGAME | 29/06/14 07:38 AM |
| 4 | In Defense Of Singlehood: Avoid The Relationship Trap In Your TwentiesYeah the pressure is great. Fortitude training to resist it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 05:37 AM |
| 1 | In Defense Of Singlehood: Avoid The Relationship Trap In Your TwentiesYes. Thanks for the feedback. Appreciate it. | /r/trpGAME | 29/06/14 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Plate 'caught' me with another plate.This is good. Perfect RP example, although I will be very paranoid sticking my dick in her mouth. One bite and you're done. Still, good job. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis Blaster. RP over PUA"You don’t necessarily have to be seeing two to three girls to be abundant–but if you know that you have the skill set to meet another girl even if one leaves you, that is abundance too." Did you read it? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Women and RespectExactly my point. Couldn't have said it better. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Women and RespectWhat I mean is I don't respect women the way I respect men. I'm not saying I don't respect women because they are women. Like I said, there are women I respect. But most women don't behave in ways that demand respect. Maybe friendliness, maybe adoration, maybe politeness, but not respect. To respect one has to lead, to create, to have a strong identity, and MOST women don't portray these traits. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 09:45 PM |
| 1 | After years of self improvement I still don't feel a whole lot more confident in myself. Why?Hope this helps you: http://trueinnerga.me/money-looks-or-status-wont-make-good-with-women/ | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Owen from RSD, actually picking up girls, or otherwise?He talks about how he enter the "intoxication state" through complete self awareness. Extreme uninhibition. He spent 12 years developing that level of awareness and state control. He does do game on non drunk girls as well. Street stuff. If you're inclined to check his hot seat you'll see. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Discouraged TonightWhy are you gaming so much at a concert? Enjoy it for goodness sakes. Of course position yourself next to a couple of hot girls at the most. You should be approaching maybe 2-3 maximum. 30 in a small space, awareness of what you're doing is going to be obvious. ESPECIALLY if after every rejection you're going to look like you got rejected. That said, hang in there. You're only 19. Just keep at it. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Game: How to move from match to number to date?maybe because they swiped you right, leading to the match? it means they are already interested on some level. | /r/trpGAME | 27/06/14 10:14 AM |
| 1 | All it takes is one sentenceHah. Not a disaster though. Looks like she reacted pretty well. You have a funny story there to tell in the future. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Self-Reflection: Having a Life outside of SeductionYou need both. The problem with Red Pill guys is that they use self-improvement and value building as an excuse not to approach. And years later, successful job, jacked body, they still can't talk to a woman. I know men like that. Then there's the PUA who practices pick up all his life but doesn't build his personal value. Game is the umbrella that covers everything about being a man: pick up, value building, inner game, health, knowledge accumulation, creation, legacy, wealth accumulation, masc… | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 10:04 AM |
| 1 | After years of self improvement I still don't feel a whole lot more confident in myself. Why?Unlike what some people say, the fear does go away. The thing about improving your value is that it doesn't help you with women. RP theory works hand in hand with game. Reading a book about how to do surgery, and then working on other hobbies will not make me a better surgeon. Ultimately you have to put in the grind to meet women until you get comfortable. Confidence in one area does not mean confidence in all areas. I know successful businessmen who have their entire lives settled, who shit the… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Women and RespectI agree with the granting basic human decency to men and women off the bat. However I don't believe in holding women and men to the same standard. Politeness and respect is different. A man who proves himself, I respect. If I respect him I will be polite, but if I'm polite it doesn't mean I respect him. Likewise I present myself as an individual worthy of respect as well. Women, I have a different approach, though. Fuck that equality bullshit. Male-female social dynamics doesn't function on resp… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Was it something I said?Yeah and the vibe is totally too tryhard. You have to lay back, and reeeaally lay back. Most of the conversation is setting up logistics. You have to build a bit of rapport still. | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 08:03 AM |
| 0 | A CriticismThat's way easier than LTR game. Just look good, be charming and have full intent, and don't fuck up the logistics. Isolate and pull. Not very complicated. | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 08:01 AM |
| 1 | what does TRP think of this feminism video?I laughed. It was funny. They are taking just another word and reframing it to victimize themselves so they can "fight against it". Strawman much? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/14 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Game: How to move from match to number to date?I've never tried double dates. But might give it a try. Though might be more awkward because instead of 1 now it's 3 people she hasn't met. Plus isolation will be a bit more complicated. | /r/trpGAME | 26/06/14 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Tinder tips. Running flawless online game.Not just "what's up" but I follow up with a question that sparks interest like "Important question: bitter or sweet?" (in this case I wanted to know if beer or cider) or usually I ask "dog or cat", "flying or teleporting?" Just stuff that tells me a bit about her personality but is indirect and not boring. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 07:01 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to this shit test?the answer to the first is "yes" and answer to the second is "lolk" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 06:49 PM |
| 45 | How to respond to this shit test?Several ways to handle this. Some of my favorites are: "gay" "k" "unsubscribe" "lol" or if you can't be bothered, just don't reply. Wait a few days she will text you back, then just do whatever you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Man accidentally "rapes" his girlfriendSafe word, man. Always have a safe word. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Initiating vs playing hard to getI think the thing about not initiating and "playing hard to get" is that you have to be "easy to want". That means you have to approach nonverbally through presence and dominating the space. If you are a low intensity guy like I am, playing hard to get doesn't work because if I don't do anything no one will notice me. It'll just be some sort of sad one-sided game I'm playing in my head. That's why I initiate but strategically without coming across as too intentional. You have to see which suits … | /r/askTRP | 03/06/14 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Need help with confidence with strangers.It probably is some sort of psychological anchoring. We all have multiplicity in our personalities. I'm quiet around strangers at times; and high energy other times. Just focus on areas you want to work on and slowly take it from there. Maybe start with increasing eye contact, then speaking up, then standing straight. Don't put too much pressure or it'll come off weird. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/14 05:51 PM |
| 2 | How do I go alpha?Work on building your value now. Work out, read a lot, emulate the greats. And really, I would advice against online game. Go out and approach, you have time in your youth. Don't limit yourself to the grocery store. Cafes, on the streets, at the mall, at the beach. Just go hard for about two years. It may seem like a long time but that's the only way. Although I say go hard, it doesn't mean you won't have down periods. For the two years you will have high intensity and low intensity periods. Jus… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/14 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Earn money or have a good time with my SO on vacations?If you are on TRP you already know the answer. Never make a woman your priority. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/14 05:57 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill can't cure my oneitis.I recently experienced the same thing despite being in the game for a while now. It does come back now and then especially when you meet a girl that stands out above the rest. Your mind goes to the mindset of "I started all of this to meet someone like her". On some level you think that you would never meet someone like her again. My solution? Cut off all contact. Delete all social media connections and her number. Hopefully you don't have mutual friends/are in the same social circle. While this… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | psychopathy(not giving a F) problemI think the problem is not with feeling emotions, but with how you deal with stress. If possible, walk away, calm down then attend to situation. If it requires immediate attention, then perhaps the only thing you can do is to condition yourself to high stress situations like controlled fighting or repeated exposure to stressful situations (in the right doses--don't go too far until it breaks you). | /r/askTRP | 01/06/14 08:55 PM |
| -1 | psychopathy(not giving a F) problemI rate pretty high on the psychopathy scale as well but I'm not a psychopath. I experience emotions like most people and I get what you mean by you can't separate emotions. Of course you can't. It's a normal thing. First thing I would advise is not to resist it. I personally believe that if you resist anything in life it will fuck you up. If you are sad that you have to cut a girl out of your life,just be sad but don't grip onto the sadness, you will feel it and it will pass. Let it come and go.… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/14 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Have any of your plates been feminists? Did you make any adjustments to your game or was it pretty much standard red pill behavior?Personally I've dated and are even friends with a few self-identifying feminists. Personally there isn't much conflict because difference in world views are fine and nobody usually shoves their beliefs down others' throats. But when the topic does come up I adopt a Socratic method of poking holes in their ideology and it usually ends with "fine I'm not really a feminist but a human rights activist going for equality". When they understand what feminism is about and what feminists do, most women … | /r/askTRP | 01/06/14 07:39 PM |
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