I was at a bar. I'm 20 years old, long story short me and some of my wings who are 21+ found a bar that isn't so strict so I can pretty much get in there on a busy night. But anyway, I'm there, opening sets. It's going alright, I get some light rejections, I chat, I vibe. I went into the night with ZERO expectations. I didn't expect to pull or do anything really, just approach girls and see if any girls are interested enough for me to escalate.

So at one point I see this really hot girl, absolutely hot, she was probably at least 24 maybe 25 if I had to take a guess. I was with one of my wings and we were chatting, the girl was around 2 other guys and one friend. I'm not sure if the guys knew her or if they were other guys just trying to pick up girls. So at first I just get the attention of her friend since it's obvious that those two guys have got her on lock down. I tap her on the shoulder. Say something stupid, I introduced myself and then ask if her and her friend are best friends. I slightly pointed at the hot girl as I was saying this. She saw this and put her focus on me for a bit. At that point I introduced myself to her and said hi. I put my hand out, and spun her around and pulled her in. Afterwards I'm not really sure what happened in order but this is what generally happened: After the spin I think I tried to dance with her. She resisted slightly and giggled a bit though. I think I tried more spins after that. I then tried to talk a bit but we never had a stable conversation, more of just bullshitting jokes or whatever. So then I pull her in with my arm around her and she shows me a tattoo that she had on her wrist. I said it looked cool and put her hand up to my mouth and kissed her wrist (I know, kinda corny). Anyway, I just wanted to escalate and push things forward. So I told her to kiss me on the cheek. She did and then after that I tried to turn my head and kiss her on the lips. She wouldn't allow it though and said she knew my games and giggled a bit. I think somewhere during the set I tried to full on make out with her but she obviously wouldn't let me. I also got a bit stifled at that point. I looked down and got a glance at her tits which were pretty huge with a lot of cleavage showing. Made me think "oh shit the stakes are so high right now". But anyway, after she dropped that little line about her knowing my games and giggled a bit I didn't know how to recover. I was obviously getting some resistance. What I ended up doing was saying, hey I gotta go now but I'll be back. And she's like, sure you will. And then at that point I knew I kind of fucked myself.

The reason I said that I'll be back line is because I was thinking, should I really go all out on this set when I could just see her again another time? Or is that a bad frame of mind? I sometimes like to do that at bars, just open some sets and if shits going low I say I'll be back and re approach later. I didn't wanna stick on this girl and burn it to the ground, plus I didn't even know how. Besides just lingering around her, trying to pull her in some more and trying to keep talking with her and hope that she doesn't become distracted or lose my attention. Maybe I could've tried to lead her to another location, like say "let's go over here to the tables". Wasn't really thinking about my end game here though. And in the past when I've tried to lead girls around that early it just doesn't work, almost all the time the girl says no and doesn't wanna come, instead she'd rather just be in the same area with her friends or whatever. Thoughts?