ONEITIS or something more

benuntu · 2014-12-18T08:20:42+00:00

You say you have the opportunity but not the mood. Ever feel that way at work or at the gym? Well, you just do that shit anyways because you know it needs to get done. You need to get back on that horse regardless of how you feel, and I guarantee that you'll feel better.

circlhat · 2014-12-18T22:59:19+00:00

ONEITIS: you "love" her and by love you care about her and have a love deeper than the physical.

Emotional love is not better than physical love by any means, its just people like it better because looks are fading while emotion tends to stabilize.

Make no mistake, its just your turn with her , women come and go , and she left because she looking out for her best interests(Which she should)

You need to see women as additions to your life instead of your complete life, this take time since culture tends to present settle down for a men as the mature choice.

We even have movies of guys giving up careers for a wholesome family setting , its been ingrained in you since childhood to think like this.

Its very important you realize no girl is special, and what makes her worth is how much benefit she adds to your life.

If she is adding no benefit to your life than find another girl until she gets back and see if you can pick things up

Title	ONEITIS or something more
Author	wannabeseddit
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	December 18, 2014 7:01 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2pnumo/oneitis_or_something_more/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/oneitis-or-something-more.1381099 https://theredarchive.com/post/1381099

Comments