Clubgame. Can a man be too beautiful for a girl?

Just_for_boobs · 2014-12-20T14:15:00+00:00

The fact that girls leave or look away means that you're not as good looking as you think.

g_gggg · 2014-12-20T15:26:11+00:00

yeah, that's why Brad Pitt is a virgin

2014-12-20T16:07:58+00:00

Try an experiment. Quit trying!!

Next time you go out dress down and don't look like you give a shit, wear blue jeans, a white t-shirt and sit in one place longer. Don't try to talk so much and see what happens.

The funny thing is that i notice this girls grinding heavily with average or chubby looking guys shortly after.

This is almost a sure sign that they're seeing you as less confident and approachable than the chubby guys.

PS: There's nothing magical about the lumberjack look, you can pull the same effect off in a suit. The earth-tones and flannel portray calmness, ruggedness, and confidence while not looking intentionally done (People are not fooled by people that look fake). Remember that the next time you think about peacocking.

dijw · 2014-12-20T17:45:38+00:00

Can a man be too beautiful for a girl?

Yes, it's common for a girl to feel a guy is out of her league.

If you're interested in these girls, you should be more humble. Girls in general like humble guys, but some girls (ones who are shy / have a low self-esteem) are only interested / comfortable around these types of guys. Try dressing and approaching girls with this in mind and it should help.

yabai · 2014-12-20T19:21:33+00:00

If you have boyish looks you could try for an unshaven look. Dressing well is fine, as long as it's appropriate for the situation. You might have some girls assume you're a player because of your looks/approach style.

To be honest though, it might just be something with your approach or vibe that you give off since you mention that you get IOI's but it seems to go downhill once you initiate interaction.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-12-20T20:33:22+00:00

When i see a cute HB <=7 and try to force an IOI with a smile, wink, point, glas raise they look away or turn around or get kind of a disgust/hostile look on their face.

This is a red flag for me. It seems like you're not actually generating value for the girl. As in, you're not actually creating a connection or building rapport. It seems like you're just trying to use her to get yourself off, rather than create a win-win situation. Outcome dependence, basically.

I don't know what i could do differently.

I'm not sure it's about what you're doing, but who you're being in that moment. It might be worth asking to yourself, "how am I being when I'm in these situations?"

Title	Clubgame. Can a man be too beautiful for a girl?
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Date	December 20, 2014 1:51 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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