quick backstory;; I've just recently been going out again, I went through some medical issues that really hurt my ego/confidence. I'm 22 and living in a new (much larger) city going to a university. I have a presentable car, a decent apartment (that i'm working on ie;; paint, stripper pole lol, ect.), two good jobs where I make decent money for a college student, and overall am feeling pretty good about life. My 'medical issue' was a tumor on the left side of my face that grew on a nerve, unreal.. it made the left side of my face paralyzed. It has gotten a lot toner since the surgery to have it removed last year and is honestly unnoticable unless I smile or look surprised... It doesn't come up when I'm talking to women unless they notice small things and say something like "your nose" or something, and that's after we've been talking for awhile. Once in awhile my ego catches up with me mid-convo with a girl and I end up bringing it up, but overall hasn't been damaging to my "game." Also I'll be having plastic surgery to hide whatever is noticeable next year, so it'll be sorted out and hopefully I'll get over letting it bug me.

question;; I've always had social circles that were older than me - not all of my friends, but a lot, since I was in high school. I've usually dated girls that were older than me, maybe just a year or two.. Since I've been going out for the past few weeks I've had decent luck. Usually, the bars that I go to I'm one of the youngest - mostly late 20s / early 30s with full-time jobs, mortgages, ect.. and I like being there. But I'm constantly reminded by women who seem interested in me about how young I am. I get a lot of "But you're so young.. oh my god." And they're usually only like 26-28.. I really don't know what to say to this.. And they're usually women I really want to close the deal with. Is there something I could say to make them more comfortable with my age.. I think what they tend to be worried about is what their peers are going to think if they're with such a young guy. But in reality a lot of the people that are at those bars have seen me with women and probably don't think twice about it..

more;; I've always had this problem - I waited tables at 16 and most of the girls that I worked with were usually juniors or seniors in high school. I was a flirt and usually said whatever it took to make a girl notice me I remember a lot of girls saying "if only you were two years older."