I have been browsing seddit for few months now. Dreaming and dreaming about talking to random strangers. I have seen hundreds of Infield footage. But when it comes down to taking the action, I have always been dodging the opportunities.

Fast forward to yesterday. After meeting up with my friend at food court, I noticed there was a table with 3 girls (and 1 empty seat). All these PUA materials had "poped" out. Looking at them back and forth, *I finally stood up * and sat back down. What the Fuck ? ashuj? At that point, there was no turning back. No matter what the outcome could possibly be, I would feel worse if I don't make the approach.

The interaction went: I went up to the table with a steedy eye contact and a little bit of confidence. I opener was that I thought the girl was "cute" and I had to say hi. ( I wouldn't use cute to describe that girl). Her friends began to laugh with awkwardness and shockedness. As soon I said that, my brain froze. "I fucked up " I said to myself. Her friends gave me "advice" : " Ask her about this" "Ask her about that" "Do you want her number?" I knew how powerless I was. I was as completely at the "effect" not at the "cause". I was reacting to her ( totally ). I can "foresee " that the conversation is getting nowhere. I bounced off without getting her # or even saying " It is nice meeting/talking you".

Later I regret that I ejected too soon. I could have gotten more reference expericence.

Late that day, I did the excalt same thing( cold approaching a group with 3 girls ). It went much better. I felt more confident. I was more smooth. After I leave the table, a 40ish old man and women ( I assume they are one of the girls' parents) can back from buying food. I didn't get beat up. Everything was fine.

English aint my first language. Sorry!