I really like "No More Mr. Nice Guy" because it focuses on guys being better guys for the sake of being better guys. I've tried checking out some more books that got similar reviews and most of it just reeks of insecurity and "blaming your problems on women rather than taking responsibility".

I'm a pretty liberal pro feminist dude, I don't like the idea of patriarchy, you get the idea. There was a lot of stuff in "The Rational Male" that made me sick.