Asked a girl out she enthusiastically said yes, but didn't respond when I proposed the details, what gives?

livin_free · 2015-01-04T03:39:51+00:00

As hard as this is to do (been there a number of times), I think you should wait for her to make contact. She may well just be really busy as you say. If she's still interested she will text back. In the meantime, try to keep busy with other things and not think about her too much.

Rip_McBong · 2015-01-04T03:43:42+00:00

she's a PHONY. P-H-O-N-Y

Udanokor · 2015-01-04T07:08:43+00:00

She wants you as a fuck buddy but doesnt know how to say it without sounding like a slut. Plus you aren't the only guy shes messing around with.

icevermin · 2015-01-04T16:39:49+00:00

Cut ends. If she's interested she will get back to you. Move on with another

bretmaster5 · 2015-01-04T16:53:37+00:00

Women play these little games or tests. The same thing happened to me actually, she messaged me to make some plans. I said I'd call her, and when I did? AWOL. Not answering her phone, and most likely won't respond to texts.

Trust me don't contact her. You could call from a healthy place 20 times and still feel pretty grounded, but what does she see?

jamesc1071 · 2015-01-04T09:24:55+00:00

No idea, but she's not interested (at the moment) and you are wasting your time on her.

Armstrongt479 · 2015-01-04T05:43:12+00:00

She doesn't want to plan out outings with you. All she wants is sex. Text her something dirty and find out what happens.

SandtheB · 2015-01-04T05:00:20+00:00

I think you should have made that decision.

"we Will get together for supper and a movie at my place Wednesday."

and by that i mean don't be a dick and put emphasis on the WILL. just say after she says yes to the date,

"For our date we will get together for supper and a movie at my place Wednesday."

I think if you take charge then we will respect you more.

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With that said she sounds like the type that might be a little too needy, so keep that in mind.

Title	Asked a girl out she enthusiastically said yes, but didn't respond when I proposed the details, what gives?
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Date	January 4, 2015 3:08 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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