Need some help guys

Endoss · 2015-01-26T07:42:47+00:00

"But how can I make her just absolutely fall for me?"

You can't. Just be a chill dude, enjoy each other's company, and escalate physically.

wrecks90 · 2015-01-26T07:11:49+00:00

be yourself and don't over think it

Schtemich · 2015-01-26T11:56:45+00:00

So far as techniques for influencing people go, making someone fall in love in you is about as advanced as it gets. So unless you are some kind of sociopathic manipulator looking for a challenge, I would suggest you just focus on the basics: behaving in the confident manner of an attractive man with options; driving the date forward; escalating physical contact; making her laugh but not seeming clownish; and so on.

Of course, if you are a sociopathic manipulator looking for a challenge, then it's another story. Alienate her from her friends, ascertain what all her failed dreams are, and through a hot/cold approach of beating down and then rebuilding her self-esteem, convince her that you alone see the "real her", you alone recognise her "potential", and you're the only one that help her realise it.

My point of course is that you should focus on being an attractive guy, rather than making her do or feel anything, because even it works it's ugly behaviour.

brocklanders3791 · 2015-01-27T08:19:54+00:00

be a man. don't pander to "her". have fun doing what you want to do and let her have fun with you. i'm not saying be disrespectful or distant, but be confident and decisive.

Title	Need some help guys
Author	NeedHelGents
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	January 26, 2015 6:53 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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